I have no idea if it is DeltaFosB or Demonic Possession
but it seems like there are times when the urges come back with a vengance, and then it gets a bit easier. Then they make a new attempt, and if I can stay on course, it gets a little bit easier still.
day 3 was hard.
At about 10 -14 days was hard.
day 20 was hard
now is another really rough spot.
However, day 21 was easier then day 15, and 15 was easier then day 4.I had to leave work so home now and will remove myself from the PC and get some sleep as i don't trust myself now. That lizard brain of mine reaaaally want to PMO right now.
Last thoughts before shutting down.
Urges seem to be easier mentally but harder physically. My brain isnt screaming any more, but I am in physical pain now, and feeling dizzy or sick when the urges come. Also, I feel more horny rather then porn-addicted. I am not focusing on pixels but on releif now when i get the urge.
It has worked really well for me with a gradual increase in severity. I have seen, and followed, advice to be super strict from day one, and that always made me relapse. I have also seen, often from the same people, a downplay of the relapse and that "if you edge you might as well PMO" As long as I followed that, I never made any progress. I am here now, at day 30, because I did not give in back at day 3. Sure, I edged a lot, sure, i kept switching that filter back on and off all day, jumping in showers, starting to M but then stopping etc, BUT I DID NOT M. Those hard fought victories serve me so well now, and without them i would still be doing "perfect" streaks, five days at a go, before a relapse and a "what the hell-binge".
off to bed now, and again, if anyone has any thoughts on this, from a few posts up, please share!
"However, I keep bumping into channels that deal with meditation/mindfulness that is aiming at enhancing sex. Has anyone been looking into this? At first i stayed away from it (usually littered with erotic images) but now I am getting curious as i will no longer drop my pants from the graphic materials.
It sounds logical to use this as a solitary rewire technique, but curious if anyone has any experience from this."