As always, thank you for your words of support Malando,
I've been without a computer for the past few weeks and have just got it up and working again and as a result temptation has reappeared.
On top of this I have been Ming a little which has been feeding the urges.
I don't think psycho-analysing my fantasies would be a good idea at the moment. The only real issue I have with them is that they are tied up with identity politics and objectification.
There is something about deriving pleasure from engaging with things that we think are wrong that is very compelling. I have often heard it said that there are no rights or wrongs. At the very least everything is relative. However, I have come to realise that this is an absolutist position. In reality we always have a filter or topology through which we perceive distinct things, and this includes right and wrong. The topology may be arbitrary, we may be able to change our filter so we perceive things differently, but we always perceive some distinction of right and wrong.
Bringing more things into the realm of right action, refining the topology or filter so more is considered just, is where the compulsion comes from. Things are not absolutely right or wrong, but things are right or wrong to us, both individually and collectively. Pleasure binds us to things, but it doesn't make them right or wrong. By binding ourselves through pleasure to wrong things we hope to make them right.
I think the idea of right and wrong goes beyond polar opposites. There is something more, a further qualification, that distinguishes right from wrong. I intuitively know what it is, but I can't put it into words. As I said, through application of pleasure, we seek to expand what is right. To master wrongs so that we can call them right, in much the same way as violence is wrong, but martial arts is right. However, as I can't really put the distinction into words, I certainly can't say how wrongs become right through change of topology.
What I can say is that pleasure doesn't make things right or wrong, it merely binds us to them. Perhaps everything is wrong to some degree, but that is being absolutist again, right and wrong are relative.
I intuitively know what is right and wrong. I have a filter or topology through which I perceive these distinctions. There are two compulsions, pleasure and wanting to expand my horizons.
I am wondering if part of the problem I have with P is confusion about the relative nature of right and wrong. Even with a topology or filter, things are not absolutely one or the other. The topology is relative. I have competing instincts and washing them with dopamine release gives the impression of resolving them until the come down.
Thinking about it now, I think wrong things are things in a state of confusion or contradiction. In topological terms, a set that is both open and closed at the same time. This has also been my definition of violence.
I don't know how this relates to Zen koans.
I know that through pleasure we seek to resolve the contradiction, to reach synthesis.
Anyway, I think I'm trying to come up with a theory of everything again, which is impossible
Perhaps this is the point. There are always some contradictions present in our topology, even if it is only the end points, and there are always some wrongs which are not right. We cannot make everything right at once. Perhaps this is the significance of the Zen koans. We need to accept that there is wrong in life and leave it alone.
I am just writing to stave of the urges.
Thank you.