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TK-421 said:Day 47
Day 47, take 2. Cruising along. It's not always easy, but if it was easy we wouldn't need forums like this. I'm encouraged by a lot of the recent success I've seen guys on this forum achieve recently (especially this +40 section). I've seen guys complete their reboot, I've seen guys get to record days after numerous false starts and I've seen guys come back after a slip with renewed determination. I've also seen some guys fall away - that does make me wonder what happened to them. I hope those guys are able to figure it out, because it isn't easy to roll around in the muck. I know that I did that for far too long.
I'm grateful for this forum. Who would have thought that a misfit group of anonymous men could be so important to my recovery. I'm grateful that guys like William have been able to show so many of us the path. I often feel like a man that was stumbling around, lost in the wilderness without any hope. Then someone showed up with a map and pointed me in the right direction. Sometimes I just want to scream at guys when I see how confused they are and how they are stuggling. It really is such a gift to have the knowledge and support of the people on this forum. SEIZE IT! We don't have to stumble around in the darkness. There is a way out! I may sound like a bit of a nut - maybe that comes from trying to get out from under this for a longer period of time than some of the younger guys (I first started to realize I had a problem and was looking for a way out in 2009). Perhaps that has led to a greater amount of desperation.
I'm also grateful for the other men on this forum that are sharing the same struggle and are committed to becoming better men, better husbands and better fathers. This struggle is all too real, but worth it. I have begun to see satisfying changes in myself, in my relationship with my wife and with my kids. I want success in beating this. I check in daily, try to post and read as much as I can. It helps to be mindful of the fact that I am in a battle. I still feel the tug regularly though. I still need to be mindful of porn subs and ogling, but I am working on it.
This turned out to be a bit of a rambling post. Hope all of you are well and thanks for sharing my journey.
TK-421
This is everything true and right about RN. You even made me feel OK with myself despite recent struggles.
Bravo!