Day 44
Day 44, take 2. Not to get too far ahead of myself, but I'm looking forward to getting past 58 days so I can drop the "take 2" reference. I do like to go back and read my journal, so wanted to have a reference to where I was at when I made a specific post.
I saw in a couple of journals that guys were trying to cut back on time spent on the Internet. I think this could be helpful for me too. I am guilty of spending way too much time on my phone, just grabbing it for a break and all of a sudden half an hour went by. I've started to "put my phone to bed" at 9:00 pm and don't keep it in my bedroom overnight. I'll think about implementing some other ways to limit use, but this is a start. I've often advised guys to not focus on too many things during the reboot in a quest to become a better person - for me job #1 is to get PMO and MO out of my life. I do think though that idle and excessive time spent online is fertile ground for slips, so is something I want to limit (not to mention that it is largely unproductive, passive time).
As I get further into my reboot, I'm am really coming to a realization of how I used PMO (and previously alcohol) as an easy way of self-soothing. Anytime I felt stressed, bored or lonely my immediate, intuitive response was almost always to run to PMO (or booze). I feel like I'm now in a place where I can control that initial reaction, but it is still there (ie the idea to PMO pops into my head, and I have to tell myself "Not so fast, we're on a path of renewal and changing those behaviours, remember?"
Hope all are well and progressing - comments and feedback are welcome.
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