On the matter of pride...
Yes, I agree pride can become a problem if unchecked, and it is so intertwined with the selfishness of porn consumption...and pride definitely takes a painful hit when you dedicate yourself to the truth, clean the slate by telling the truth and the whole truth. But the experience after that pain and shame is the freedom, relief and joy of living openly. Living there for the first time in my life it feels great and makes me want to stay in the openness. But it is continual effort, living openly means living a life willing to be personally challenged.
Then pride becomes appropriately centered around accomplishments and growth...true self-satisfaction, self-love.
Yes, I agree pride can become a problem if unchecked, and it is so intertwined with the selfishness of porn consumption...and pride definitely takes a painful hit when you dedicate yourself to the truth, clean the slate by telling the truth and the whole truth. But the experience after that pain and shame is the freedom, relief and joy of living openly. Living there for the first time in my life it feels great and makes me want to stay in the openness. But it is continual effort, living openly means living a life willing to be personally challenged.
Then pride becomes appropriately centered around accomplishments and growth...true self-satisfaction, self-love.