Blondie
Respected Member
Day 43
Thanks for the encouragement @swimmer97, that made my day. And that picture, where did you find that of me?
With much love,
Blondie
Yes it's a terrible cycle of destruction for everyone involved. However, just thinking about them as people seems to be the first step in turning the spell off and getting your head out of your ass to admit reality. I think it's too easy for us men to "blame" these women for "seducing" us etc., however, we should be mindful that they are just as much a part of the system as we are. Their world is our world, and we're all somewhat responsible in partaking in it and sustaining it. That doesn't mean I would choose them for a wife necessarily, however, it does mean I should approach them with empathy and understanding as much I hope someone would do for me.
Best brother, and as always, thank you.
It really is a beautiful thing what we're talking about here.
Love you.
Thanks for the encouragement @swimmer97, that made my day. And that picture, where did you find that of me?
With much love,
Blondie
Thanks @First_step_thousand_miles.You're absolutely right man. Porn desensitizes us but also dehumanizes the women involved. No one ends up well at the end...we are destroying our brains and they are destroying theirs (if not also their bodies). Truth is, for 99% of these women it's too late as almost no one who grew up well adjusted is using porn / is a hooker / cam girl / etc....and that's very sad, but it's NOT too late for us to quit and get our lives back on track.
Yes it's a terrible cycle of destruction for everyone involved. However, just thinking about them as people seems to be the first step in turning the spell off and getting your head out of your ass to admit reality. I think it's too easy for us men to "blame" these women for "seducing" us etc., however, we should be mindful that they are just as much a part of the system as we are. Their world is our world, and we're all somewhat responsible in partaking in it and sustaining it. That doesn't mean I would choose them for a wife necessarily, however, it does mean I should approach them with empathy and understanding as much I hope someone would do for me.
Thanks brother, me too!I'm glad you and your lady are working things out.
Yes, I still need to work on this. What I'm studying in college is a great passion of mine, and at the moment, I don't have much time for anything else, so at least that makes me happy.Obviously you are in a relationship, but what other hobbies give you that deep satisfaction? Might be worth building a few more
Best brother, and as always, thank you.
This is a fact. Thank you for reminding me @GBS.Nailed it….
and love is there too….because genuine friendship with sex becomes true love.
It really is a beautiful thing what we're talking about here.
Love you.