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I'd like to get some advice here. Abuse victim, same-sex attracted and addicted to porn since puberty (I'm 36). My porn use this year has varied, but averaged around 1-2x/mo. I'm in counseling, have done EMDR and continue to engage in healthy alternatitive activities: reaching out to friends...

Fellas! I've been an on-again/off-again participant in the forums, and have had mixed experience here. I've found GREAT help and camaraderie, but also found it to be a mild sub at times reading other posts, so I need to watch that. Anyway, staring a new thread, because I believe I'm starting...

Fellas - I've been an average user here for sometime.  My history is this: Grew up in a loving home, but abused by older family member at ages 6 and 11. Messed me up, as it does everyone. Found P&M around age 13, and dove in deep for the next ten years.  After I got married (22), I entered...

I'm doing a reboot, but still want to have sexual activity with my wife.  I have not been masturbating, but my wife gives me hand jobs.  We can't have sex, because we just welcomed our second daughter home. I'm reading conflicting things on this, and want to get some opinions. Is this cool? ...

Hey guys, Close to day 30.  Have mildly edged a few times, but have shut it down. Trying toward hard mode as much as possible. My question is, what do your symptoms look like? I've experienced: anxiety, insecurity, depression, muscle aches, fatigue (although we have a newborn, so a lot's...

I'm a highly emotional person, so I'm up and down a lot, but I'm close to day 30 and over the past week and a half depression has been rough.  Anyone else relate to this and what have you done to combat it?

Hey guys, So had a moment of weakness today.  So I have my phone on lock-down, no web access. I found a way to the web through an app  today on my phone.  Watched a couple of sexual youtube videos for a bit and wanted to M.  Ultimately, I fled the situation, deleted the app, didn't M and later...

There's a title I've never written. In my fight against M, are hand jobs from your spouse cool, or do you fellas recommend just sex?? Also, what ways have you involved your spouse/GF in the fight against PMO?

Hey fellas, I'm a grateful for your stories here, and hope that I can grow from your experiences. **Disclaimer: I'm looking for a Forum accountability partner...if anyone is interested, I'd love some online encouragement from someone whose had more success than myself** Here's the skinny on...