So here is Goal #5--Explore Healthy Coping Skills such as relaxation, mindfulness, recreation, exercise, self-nurturing, support network, assertiveness, and anger management.
For me the whole concept of doing something "self-nurturing" was totally new and different. I was used to PMO and thinking it was self-nurturing, while in reality it was self-destructive.
Now I read, play board games, exercise, go hiking, socialize a lot, meditate, and journal. My anxiety is way down and my brain is continuing to heal and change from the years of P.