Thanks, Cos. I appreciate it. Ultimately, when my wife asked me to leave I pretty much hit rock bottom. I turned my recovery over to professionals and it's been a nearly 3 year journey of putting the work in to reconnect with my wife and family. I've had set backs, just like anyone else, but I'm in a better place now. My hope in sharing what I went through is to provide tools and food for thought. One of the last things my therapist said to me before I finished my treatment program was, "Lead with your brokenness." I have a tendency to project an image that I'm fine and that I have it all together, while inside my anxiety is through the roof. My anxiety is way down, but I still have my challenges just like we all do, and pretending like I have it all together all the time is just so counterproductive.
If anything I journal about is helpful to anyone, then that will be great. In the end, I feel blessed to have been referred to a great program and blessed to have found this Forum. I have been helped so much by numerous people, most recently by you and all the others on this Forum and the ybop web site. I also am blessed to have a very supportive family.
I hope you and everyone on here finds the peace and true joy in life that I believe is attainable, free from PMO.