My counter is showing 270 days, which is 9 months without porn. Time for a little update.
Porn urges still haven't come up to this day. This is good. I am really hopeful I can live a life without porn.
Not masturbating didn't really do much for me in the end. I noticed this, when I did it a few times. I don't feel any different if I do it or not, though compared to the past, I do it much less. Urges to MO sometimes come and once in a while I give in to them, especially if I am apart from my gf for a long time like right now, when we can't see each other for a month. But then again I can also go no-MO for a few weeks without even realizing it. Point is, MO isn't important to me, one way or the other.
My PIED recovered nicely in some areas. I can get erect pretty much without effort and my potential orgasm frequency has improved. There are no more discussions about ED with my gf, she claims to be very pleased with our sex-life. As am I.
In other areas there hasn't been any progress at all. For example, I still don't get "locking" erections, that stay for a few minutes without stimulation. I can get hard for sex and stay hard enough for oral or penetration, but the erection soon fades after stimulation stops. MO to touch alone doesn't give me a 100% erection lying down (the only position I tried). But I also can't have sex lying on my back (erection dies soon even with stimulation), so I am not surprised.
My libido is not raging like that of a teenager, when I am without my partner. When she is with me, that is another matter though - since I can hardly get enough of her then.
Sensitivity remains mediocre. It still feels a bit numb, like behind a veil. During rough sex, I sometimes lose the feeling completely.
I feel I get a little better every month, but it is not really related to me abstaining from MO or having sex or no sex. Since I am in a long distance relationship, which is constantly changing regarding the amount of time I can see my gf (sometimes, we are together for a month, then we are apart for a month, then see each other just for a weekend etc.), I have tried many approaches, including staying away from MO for 120 days (even 150 days with just one MO). The rate of recovery seems to stay the same for me. Therefore I have concluded for myself, that the most important thing is staying away from porn and giving the process the time it needs.
Concerning "accessory work" to support the reboot, exercising probably had the biggest effect on me. However compared to staying away from porn and giving it time, the effect of excerise was small as well. I have also mostly stopped writing a journal about my reboot. At this point there just aren't many real world positive effects I get from doing that. I still like to contribute my opinion about questions other guys have, if I think I have something worthwhile to say. Though I also have to say, that I long for the day when I can retire from forums like these and focus more on other parts of my life. Being constantly reminded of the personal misery porn causes has a certain negative effect, which I need to step away from time to time. Another reason why I stopped writing in my journal very often.
I am convinced, this will keep improving in the coming months, but my recovery will take more than one year. That is for sure by now.