relapse king
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I've relapsed so many times i'm starting to believe it's not possible.
One more attempt and if not successful i will assume its not possible for me and will live my life an addict.
Starting Now...may get mean and nasty since my agitation caused by frustration makes me a very angry person.
Time to elaborate on my initial post since when I started this I didn't want to get too long and winded since I wasn't too confident I would make it very far. It's now 18 days and counting and I feel I'm here for the long run.
I was shown how to masturbate at a very early age by someone who was as young as I was but learnt from his older brother and shared this info with me (this was pre-teen back in the late 60s). The explosive feeling hooked me from the very first time and still has a strong pull to want to explode in the brain all the time. I love the feeling of my brain taking me to a place that is all natural (no drugs) and its the best known feeling that a man can feel naturally.
I later got involved in drugs and alcohol and for a time was never sober or without drugs in my system for 7 years. My family wouldn't give up on me and kept loving me through that period and for that reason alone I decided to quit. Cigarettes was very difficult to leave behind but alcohol and drugs although difficult didn't seem as difficult as cigarettes.
I cleaned up my act but never cleaned up the porn/masturbation/sex addiction act (thought there was no harm in it) so that went on for 40 years up until now. I've tried many time to quit but always went back thinking no harm was being done and truly believing that no harm was being done to anyone which justified my continuation in the scene. It was easier to not try to quit then to feel the lows when I tried to quit and failed.
It was only after accidentally tuning into 16X9 and watching the courageous Gabe Deem and the documentary on porn that I realize more harm was being done then I was allowing myself to believe. This led me to this site and reboot and my so far 18 going on 19 days of being clean.
although drugs are very powerful this sex addiction to me seems the most difficult to quit.
So there it is a modified intro.
thanks
One more attempt and if not successful i will assume its not possible for me and will live my life an addict.
Starting Now...may get mean and nasty since my agitation caused by frustration makes me a very angry person.
Time to elaborate on my initial post since when I started this I didn't want to get too long and winded since I wasn't too confident I would make it very far. It's now 18 days and counting and I feel I'm here for the long run.
I was shown how to masturbate at a very early age by someone who was as young as I was but learnt from his older brother and shared this info with me (this was pre-teen back in the late 60s). The explosive feeling hooked me from the very first time and still has a strong pull to want to explode in the brain all the time. I love the feeling of my brain taking me to a place that is all natural (no drugs) and its the best known feeling that a man can feel naturally.
I later got involved in drugs and alcohol and for a time was never sober or without drugs in my system for 7 years. My family wouldn't give up on me and kept loving me through that period and for that reason alone I decided to quit. Cigarettes was very difficult to leave behind but alcohol and drugs although difficult didn't seem as difficult as cigarettes.
I cleaned up my act but never cleaned up the porn/masturbation/sex addiction act (thought there was no harm in it) so that went on for 40 years up until now. I've tried many time to quit but always went back thinking no harm was being done and truly believing that no harm was being done to anyone which justified my continuation in the scene. It was easier to not try to quit then to feel the lows when I tried to quit and failed.
It was only after accidentally tuning into 16X9 and watching the courageous Gabe Deem and the documentary on porn that I realize more harm was being done then I was allowing myself to believe. This led me to this site and reboot and my so far 18 going on 19 days of being clean.
although drugs are very powerful this sex addiction to me seems the most difficult to quit.
So there it is a modified intro.
thanks