Sometimes it's scary to be strong and powerful. I mean, you push yourself to quit porn, then you realize it needs some serious strength to do (which you know you have in ample). But you relapse because you're scared to use that power, you don't have enough courage to cherish it and you're not sure you can escape boredom and feeling down without that kick of dopamine. But the fact is, since you could live a day without porn, you can live 365 days without porn as well. Don't obsess too much, other stuff will then fix themselves if you can do it one day at a time, one"No" at a time.
As I've talked once about having to widen the frontier of your fight against porn by changing how you view women and how you seek sexual stimulation all together, I have more stuff to say about that.
For me, the main challenge here is to unlearn that it's okay to seek sexual stimulation from random women in the streets or social media. First, from those random women whom you see walking down the street to your friends on social media, it's downright immoral to look at them that way, simply because they're not intending to look sexy. So looking for arousal in them in normal situations is a violation of their privacy and dignity.
It's not easy to unlearn that. For most porn addicts, they've started off getting interested in staring at random women at a very young age, and it developed to become a compulsory and involuntary action that seems to be programmed in our brains as if it was carved in rocks.
Day after day, the realization that quitting porn is not merely avoiding porn content and not just adopting the mindset of a person who wants to change, that realization is increasingly instilling itself in my mind. Quitting porn definitely starts from unlearning that random women are sexually arousing. It doesn't need exceptional smart to realize that getting aroused from random women is the greatest trigger to view porn. It should be safe to say that your chances of quitting porn are greatly reduced if you get aroused from normal-dressing everyday women. So I'm preparing myself to start from here. That should be my real focus right now.
Respect women.
Look them at their faces.
Love just 1 partner with all your heart and senses.