Today is one month since I started my new attempt (May 18 - June 18). I can't believe how fast the time passed.
I binged a lot but nothing unusual: Months without binging hadn't happen in a long time. At one point I stopped counting because I had reached my PMO quota but it must be 30+ PMOs. Maybe 40, I don't know. The reason? Drinking. I realized I kind of let myself drink too much. I don't have a problem with alcohol but still... Too much drinking. That's what happens when you get involved with people who drink a lot and often. I saw that, if I didn't drink, I could end the day without binging. If I relapsed, it would be just one PMO. So it's clear: I have to stay away from drinking because I can't control my binging when I'm drunk. For this, I have to stay away from situations where drinking happens. Think about it, without binging, I would've had less than 10 PMOs. This is what I will try to do for this next month. I either stay away from PMO for good or I PMO less than 10 times. That's my goal. For this, I have to avoid binging and if alcohol brings binges, fuck it. I'm done with it. Starting tomorrow I will continue my statistics.
Coming back to what I said at the beginning, time really goes away fast and if we don't take care of ourselves, if we don't quit our addictions, if we don't improve or get the life we want, we will wake up one day and we will be 60 years old. Or we will wake up and we will be ghosts, flying around the room while the body will be lying in the bed (a.k.a we will be fucking dead - life over, bye bye. No more chances to do anything in this life). Life is too short to live it in a terrible way. Life is too short to waste time. Life is too short not to do what you need to do.