rider654321
Active Member
Hey Survivor,
Congrats on another successful day. I'm kind of puzzled though reading your posts?
I'm puzzled why you say things like "Now all I have to remember is not to take any quick peeks when my wife is not looking tomorrow night?"
For me that's just a given! There is no peeking, period! And because there's no peeking of any kind I don't need to remember not to peek.
Comments such as "I was alone all day today" have no significance either because it wouldn't matter if I was home alone for a week, I've made a commitment to myself to not look at porn.
There are no peeks. There is no I'll just have a little look to see if I can resist it (testing myself). I just don't fucking go there, end of story.
Guy's you've really got to make a clear distinction in your minds about what you really want?
Your either going to take a stand and beat the damn addiction by never ever surrendering to it, or your just going to "try" and beat it. There is a distinct difference in the mindset of the two thoughts.
Survivor, you shouldn't have to be remembering to not look at porn. By thinking of "tomorrow I'll have the house to myself", it's like your allowing your subconscious to draw your mind into dwelling on what you did at those times in the past.
Try and see every day as just a new day that the new porn free Survivor will cruise through. Porn's out of the question for you, so being at home alone isn't a risk factor. When the thoughts arise just dismiss them and move on with your day.
Congrats on another successful day. I'm kind of puzzled though reading your posts?
survivor said:I'm happy to report that I had another clean day even though I had the house to myself until mid afternoon. Today was a success story and that's all that matters. One day at a time. I'll deal with tomorrow when tomorrow gets here.
Actually tomorrow should also be a success story because I will be in town for the better part of the day. Now all I have to remember is to not take any quick peeks when my wife is not looking tomorrow night. What I do need to do is drop you people a line regarding my day when I get home.
I'm puzzled why you say things like "Now all I have to remember is not to take any quick peeks when my wife is not looking tomorrow night?"
For me that's just a given! There is no peeking, period! And because there's no peeking of any kind I don't need to remember not to peek.
Comments such as "I was alone all day today" have no significance either because it wouldn't matter if I was home alone for a week, I've made a commitment to myself to not look at porn.
There are no peeks. There is no I'll just have a little look to see if I can resist it (testing myself). I just don't fucking go there, end of story.
Guy's you've really got to make a clear distinction in your minds about what you really want?
Your either going to take a stand and beat the damn addiction by never ever surrendering to it, or your just going to "try" and beat it. There is a distinct difference in the mindset of the two thoughts.
Survivor, you shouldn't have to be remembering to not look at porn. By thinking of "tomorrow I'll have the house to myself", it's like your allowing your subconscious to draw your mind into dwelling on what you did at those times in the past.
Try and see every day as just a new day that the new porn free Survivor will cruise through. Porn's out of the question for you, so being at home alone isn't a risk factor. When the thoughts arise just dismiss them and move on with your day.