It's been tough man, being unemployed. I was very busy over the weekend and wanted to be productive today, but I wasn't.
I stayed until 4:30am woke up at 1pm. Ate a little, played overwatch and civ, and surfed the web on my phone. Took a shower at 3pm, roommate came back around then and I felt a sense of shame in acting like such a bum. It was beautiful outside and I wanted to go on a bike ride.
I put on my exercise clothes, and went to find my headphones. Couldn't find them so went to play overwatch for a while. A while turned into the rest of the day. And then it was dark and I didn't go outside at all today. Had leftovers for dinner, talked to my dad and my gf on the phone and with my roommate for a little.
But for the most part, 98% of my day, which had an entirely free schedule, was spent zoning out on overwatch. The time just melted away. I felt in control, I felt powerful, skilled and part of a team.
This has been a struggle for me man and reminds me of my last unemployment where I played tons of overwatch, hardly left the house and got really depressed. The thing is I got everything going for me now and I have the knowledge and everything I need to get a job and spend a bit of time each day on running and Korean. I'm not talking about anything ridiculous, I just want to make at least a little progress each day on those three things.
But when I sit down to play a little in the morning, suddenly the entire day has gone by, I feel drain, iritated, and deeply unhappy after playing like that.
Today I stopped at 2am so that was an improvement. Ah you know man, I don't like playing games like this. It's just not fun and makes me feels horrible. It's hiding, not playing.
Being numb is only nice until you wake up.
So, I know I am going to go back what worked last week. 1. Wake up, 2. Light fitness, 3. job stuff, 4. Korean. BEFORE PLAYING.
Here's an interesting observation, once I turn on the faucet of overwatch or to a lesser extent Netflix, google news and youtube, it does not end. There is no break in the entertainment. It was designed that way. The only was to turn it off is choose to turn it off. So whenever I start to play, I am going to write down when I am stopping. And at that time I will stop.
Tomorrow's a new day,
stay free my friends,
-squid
PS Thanks for the comment blue, I appreciate it! I feel like going through this stuff now will be beneficial to my future.