Day 25 - 7/31/19: 8:30pm
Thanks for the support everyone! Day 25 already, it's crazy, time goes by so fast. I haven't done any edging or fantasy or pmo or mo or o. But my urges haven't been as insane as past reboots, I feel like my body is keeping my sex drive low to give itself an opportunity to heal without risk of more pain. Also the positive habits have helped a ton and so has journaling here
Not to sell myself short or anything, it's been very challenging, don't get me wrong. But I continue, onward and upward!
Kettlebells went very well this morning even though I did waste thirty minutes on my phone before I finally got going. I was productive on the metro and did most of my monthly budget for August, I'll have it done tomorrow. Work actually went really well, I got to show my boss my knowledge of our system on a talk with the vendor and I think I did a good job. Also, I finally had the courage to remind my boss that she said I could work from home after 90 days which was months ago and she went to her boss and October first I can work one day a week from home. That's going to be super awesome.
I did my thirty minute walk at work today and got a coworker to go with me so that was fun. I got home from work and had a nice dinner and did some marketing consulting on the phone which was neat. After that I was on my phone watching YouTube and reading articles and a little online dating. I feel like my profile sucks, I'm not getting any matches I'm interested in :/. Then I went and did my run.
It went well and my time was fast but I've developed shin splints and they hurt. I'm only doing a two mile run but I need to add more biking to mix things up and make sure I rest the shins enough.
I didn't study much Korean today, just some on the metro. I really want to dive into it and really immerse myself but it's been very challenging. Every time I line up to study my brain freaks out and since there is no pmo or video game option, it runs to my phone for articles, youtube, social media, online dating, or messaging instead. It's the same loop as pmo kind of but just less aggressive and I've been able to be very consistent with my exercises which I could never do on pmo and video games.
All in all a positive trend but I recognize that I am still hiding from the two most important to me activities: 1. Learning this language 2. Sharing the journey
Although it should be said I am sharing the journey on this journal so the one thing os actually sitting down and trying to learn. I know I can do it and I know it will be awesome. To have a whole other world to access of entertainment, dating, travel, history, people from way different ways of living to talk to, options for business, studying, and to reformat my thinking in another language. That would be so cool. And now's the perfect time. I know this, the time is now.
Tomorrow's plan
Morning kettlebells
budget on metro
30 min walk during lunch
print out lessons at work and make a binder to stay organized with my studies
walk to library after dinner and sit down and study for 1 hour without distraction, if I do that it's a huge won even if I forget it all. Sitting down to work that's what I need to get down. Once I'm there I do great, just need to get there consistently.
Write a short blog post about how that felt and put it on website with a picture