ShadeTrenicin
Well-Known Member
Hey guys,
Thanks for the well wishes and support. It means a lot to me.
I feel bad in a weird way for not being as present and supportive to you guys as much as I normally was the past weeks. I've been struggling with my health and one of the things that has also been impacted by this is my cognitive performance. I have noticed that understanding and keeping up with the things I read is difficult (even more so in English since it's not my mother tongue). That's what I haven't been so active in posting in the other threads. And although I have no obligation to do so, i feel bad about it. Also because I miss it. I like the idea of being supportive because in my opinion it's one of the biggest virtues a person can have.
That being said, in response to orbiters question; yes i do have positive things to pick up. It sometimes is difficult to properly get a persons way of thinking on a forum due to the lack of intonation and facial expression but I am in fact a really positive guy. So I do always try to make the best of everything. One of the pitfalls in this is that I sometimes tend to be overly positive about things i.e. supressing the real emotions. But that is something that has greatly improved while on this forum (Yay forum). But while at home I do still bond more and more with the Mrs.
The night before yesterday we had a 3 hour conversation about the addiction and some of the more extreme aspecst of it (one if which is my P induced preference which now sickens me and quite possibly traumatized me) and that is something that she found really, really difficult to process. It has been something that we have not really discussed and also something that I have not fully come to terms with. But although this conversation was dreadfully heavy to discuss we did it with the outcome that we grew more and more together. It has had quite an impact on both of us the next day but I also found that it rejuvinated my sencee of commitment to getting rid of P.
One other thing is that I've been playing the piano a lot more lately. I've been picking up theory and technique as well as picking up my own composition as well and trying some more challenging pieces. Right now I'm breaking my fingers at two pieces. The first is from Debussy; Tarantell styrienne. It's difficult but making progress is really rewarding. The other one is called The heart asks pleasure first from Michael Nyman. Not as difficult to play, but the intonation between hands is somewhat challenging.
Another thing positive is the half yearly appraisal at work that I had. Most of the areas at work i've been praised above average with the exeption of all things regarding planning and prioritizing. Those are true struggles for me. But I hope that the book Rewire: Change your brain will help me with that in a way that it will help me to not procrastinate planning and organisation as I always do. With a shoutout to UKGuy who got the tip from WorkInProgressUK.
The health department is still ups and downs... Right now I have a big cold of which I hope is not COVID (Again).. I've had myself tested and hope to get the results today or tomorrow. Other than that still dealing with fatigue but sleep is getting better.
Thanks for reading guys!
Stay safe
Thanks for the well wishes and support. It means a lot to me.
I feel bad in a weird way for not being as present and supportive to you guys as much as I normally was the past weeks. I've been struggling with my health and one of the things that has also been impacted by this is my cognitive performance. I have noticed that understanding and keeping up with the things I read is difficult (even more so in English since it's not my mother tongue). That's what I haven't been so active in posting in the other threads. And although I have no obligation to do so, i feel bad about it. Also because I miss it. I like the idea of being supportive because in my opinion it's one of the biggest virtues a person can have.
That being said, in response to orbiters question; yes i do have positive things to pick up. It sometimes is difficult to properly get a persons way of thinking on a forum due to the lack of intonation and facial expression but I am in fact a really positive guy. So I do always try to make the best of everything. One of the pitfalls in this is that I sometimes tend to be overly positive about things i.e. supressing the real emotions. But that is something that has greatly improved while on this forum (Yay forum). But while at home I do still bond more and more with the Mrs.
The night before yesterday we had a 3 hour conversation about the addiction and some of the more extreme aspecst of it (one if which is my P induced preference which now sickens me and quite possibly traumatized me) and that is something that she found really, really difficult to process. It has been something that we have not really discussed and also something that I have not fully come to terms with. But although this conversation was dreadfully heavy to discuss we did it with the outcome that we grew more and more together. It has had quite an impact on both of us the next day but I also found that it rejuvinated my sencee of commitment to getting rid of P.
One other thing is that I've been playing the piano a lot more lately. I've been picking up theory and technique as well as picking up my own composition as well and trying some more challenging pieces. Right now I'm breaking my fingers at two pieces. The first is from Debussy; Tarantell styrienne. It's difficult but making progress is really rewarding. The other one is called The heart asks pleasure first from Michael Nyman. Not as difficult to play, but the intonation between hands is somewhat challenging.
Another thing positive is the half yearly appraisal at work that I had. Most of the areas at work i've been praised above average with the exeption of all things regarding planning and prioritizing. Those are true struggles for me. But I hope that the book Rewire: Change your brain will help me with that in a way that it will help me to not procrastinate planning and organisation as I always do. With a shoutout to UKGuy who got the tip from WorkInProgressUK.
The health department is still ups and downs... Right now I have a big cold of which I hope is not COVID (Again).. I've had myself tested and hope to get the results today or tomorrow. Other than that still dealing with fatigue but sleep is getting better.
Thanks for reading guys!
Stay safe