ShadeTrenicin
Well-Known Member
Thanks UKGuy and Blueicetea for your replies.
I also think that the fatigue will set in at one point and that its natural, but i cannot be after 90 days. From what I envision (and the example of your father in law, UKguy, confirms this) is that addiction is something that will stick for life. I do not have the believe that i am able to PMO at a certain time without immediately being drawn back to it or at least have the serious urge to do so.
However, there is also the difference between persons. Some people naturally are more proned to be community people and tend to take the role of mentor and guide, while others are more self centered. And there is no wrong in being either of them. So it is my believe that from the vast number of accounts only a few of those will overcome their addiction and a fraction of those will be the ones that keep coming back to provide wisdom and support for the ones not yet clear of their addiction.
All in all i think as a community we should focus on the mental health of the group while maintaining our own. By sharing out own faults, mistakes and insight we can build a foundation on which a new generation can build. That way we can help out a next generation of people wanting to quit porn with a base of things to watch out for, approaches, tips and tricks to help battle their addiction more efficient!
I also think that the fatigue will set in at one point and that its natural, but i cannot be after 90 days. From what I envision (and the example of your father in law, UKguy, confirms this) is that addiction is something that will stick for life. I do not have the believe that i am able to PMO at a certain time without immediately being drawn back to it or at least have the serious urge to do so.
However, there is also the difference between persons. Some people naturally are more proned to be community people and tend to take the role of mentor and guide, while others are more self centered. And there is no wrong in being either of them. So it is my believe that from the vast number of accounts only a few of those will overcome their addiction and a fraction of those will be the ones that keep coming back to provide wisdom and support for the ones not yet clear of their addiction.
All in all i think as a community we should focus on the mental health of the group while maintaining our own. By sharing out own faults, mistakes and insight we can build a foundation on which a new generation can build. That way we can help out a next generation of people wanting to quit porn with a base of things to watch out for, approaches, tips and tricks to help battle their addiction more efficient!