So
@Beautiful1973 this statement "However, I do realise that I have become very interested in someone atm and that needs to stop."
Unfortunately this woman is married. I've known her 25-years and she married my former best friend. We all went out together, partied together, hung out together. But there was always something there, but I was up to my eyes busy with porn and she was happy I thought.
Long story short, about four years ago I gave up porn for 4 months (I relapsed for two weeks somewhere in the middle) and I was feeling pretty good .
I called in to my best friends house and we had a cup of coffee in the garden. She walked out in to the garden and bent over to pick up a flower pot, I looked over and looked at her arse, and when I looked up our eyes met.
Something changed in that moment.
We had a few flings after that. We had a another fling a few months ago. It got messy and I ran.
We didn't speak for 4 months. She tried to put her marriage back together and I went out with someone else.
I reached out to her one day when I was struggling early in my reboot. She met me on the beach. She was pissed off with me but she still chatted and helped me through that day.
We started meeting for coffees a few weeks ago, and I noticed she had changed towards me, she wasn't pissed off, and she seemed impressed with my progress. She was great she would listen for hours when I talked about porn and what its like to be addicted etc she's the only person that ever asked me a question, because if I tell anyone I was hooked on porn I always say "ask me anything" I was impressed she asked.
Anyway "long story short", we talk, we text, and the more we meet, the more we flirt.
There is a massive energy between us, and being off porn I can now feel that. I don't think she is going to walk away, and I know deep down I must .