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First_step_thousand_miles

First_step_thousand_miles

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Blondie said:
I've been doing a lot of thinking over the last few weeks about my mission in life and what that might entail. Of course, being the intuitive that I am, I have twenty billion ideas but no solid grasp of what I should do heading forward. Of course, I have what I've been planning on doing, that is, what I'm going to school for, but even that I'm not hundred percent sure about, and to be honest, I'm feeling a little lost at the moment. Deep down inside I know I'll figure it out. I've always had a strange confidence when it comes to my future, but being in this kind of head-space can be frustrating to say the least. Furthermore, being an intuitive but also being at age 40, I'm starting to realize that every "idea" I've ever had cannot realistically be fulfilled, there's just simply not enough time in this life. And since I'm the kind of guy who really likes to be good at what he does, well that makes the things I can accomplish in this life even fewer. It's a humbling thought to realize that, but also brings some peace to my mind as well.

My mind is still healing too. Last week we had sex three times in 24 hours, and I got off all three times. After the 3rd orgasm I practically got depressed. Not only did I feel utterly drained, but I felt down as well, my brain did not like what had just happened. I'm definitely getting closer to being healed but I'm not quite across the finish line.

You all have a great porn-free Friday.
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Glad everything's working super well down there man!

Reach out if you need to chat more about this -- I also recommend journaling it out. It's awesome that you have that confidence -- that's called optimism my friend, and that is what fosters your internal resiliency. To know that no matter how hard things get, there's hope on the other side.

My recommendation is you have a lot of ideas, what do you think you would be most satisfied having done in 10yrs? Or put another way, what do you think you would most regret not having done in 10yrs? DM me if you want to chat amigo
 
Blondie

Blondie

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Day 649
81 days to two years
Androg said:
Perhaps, for your system, that's simply too frequent ejaculation (not too frequent intercourse). You probably know that the Taoists advised conserving sexual energy (while continuing to make love frequently)
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Yes @Androg, I've used those techniques before, and they've always been pretty successful, perhaps I should return to them for a while.

Thanks!
Androg said:
especially as you...dare I say it...age.
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First_step_thousand_miles said:
Glad everything's working super well down there man!

Reach out if you need to chat more about this -- I also recommend journaling it out. It's awesome that you have that confidence -- that's called optimism my friend, and that is what fosters your internal resiliency. To know that no matter how hard things get, there's hope on the other side.

My recommendation is you have a lot of ideas, what do you think you would be most satisfied having done in 10yrs? Or put another way, what do you think you would most regret not having done in 10yrs? DM me if you want to chat amigo
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That's a good idea about journaling @First_step_thousand_miles, I should try that. And as far a thinking about where I want to be in ten years is a great question. I need to stick my head in the sand for a while and ponder on this. I feel things are changing and my future will be great, but I just need to make my mission a little more clear, but I'm getting there. It would be easy to blame all of this on porn, but that would be a mistake. I've always been the friend with a thousand ideas and always having a hard time knowing what to do with them. This isn't bad thing at all, but I do need to live in the real world, while still being myself at the same time. One thing is clear though, porn will never help me!

Love you all

Have a great porn-free weekend.
 
Blondie

Blondie

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Day 651
79 days to two years
199.6 lbs. and 21.5 BF.

It's been a few since I've posted my body weight, for weeks I was stuck and my body refused to let any pounds go, but the last couple of days I've started to make progress again. Today I will be focusing 100% on my mission/clarifying it, as @SmokenMirrors put forth to do today! Also, been five days since my last orgasm.

You all have a good porn-free Monday.
 
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Blondie

Blondie

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Day 652
78 day to two years
6 days no O

SmokenMirrors said:
Always the poet!:ROFLMAO: congrats on the cold shower king! How did it feel, during and afterwards?
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Thanks @SmokenMirrors. It felt pretty good. I've done it before in my past, but never made a habit of it. I did the old, take care of business with regular temp first, then, off to cold water for 30 seconds. It always takes a few moments to get used too but I felt great afterwards and very refreshed. It made me think of a time in my early twenties when I jumped into a swimming pool in late spring with ice floating in it! I damn near thought I was going to die that day. All of my limbs suddenly refused to move, and there I was in deep water. It was definitely a hold my beer kind of moment. :cool:

Bless you all

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First_step_thousand_miles

First_step_thousand_miles

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Blondie said:
Thanks @swimmer97 and @GBS!

In honor of @SmokenMirrors and @First_step_thousand_miles, I just took a 30 second cold shower. My heart grew two sizes more manlier, and my dick, two sizes smaller. :cool:
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Hell yeah my man!!! It's brutal but feels great afterwards, the rush your brain gets is incredible. Kind of reminds me of the porn MO rush from a pure 'WTF that was so strong and so fast' BUT unlike PMO this is very healthy for you. Proud of you my man!
 
Blondie

Blondie

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Day 653
77 days to two years
7 days of no O

I've been feeling a little better these last few days after retaining my semen for a week. I don't know how long I'll do this, but it feels good at the moment. Needless to say, I don't think I'll be doing any more sex marathons AND getting off at the same time for a while. Although I do think being older and just getting off too much can drain anyone, the fact that I felt depressed after that third orgasm in that 24 hour period seems to imply my brain needs more time to heal. I have a hard time imagining a healthy guy my age without this problem feeling depressed after too many orgasms. Would he feel lazy and light headed afterward? Yes, but not depressed. At least my dick was working perfectly for all three sessions though, so that's good. Also, I took my second cold shower again yesterday. I was in there for at least a minute and half to possibly two minutes! It seems after the initial shock, past 30 seconds or so, it becomes a little easier to endure. Dancing around like a monkey and shouting like Tarzan also seems to help. It was exhilarating to say the least.

I've also been reading a great book called Your Money or Your Life by Vicki Robin. I don't know about you all, but I've always sucked at money management over the years, in that I've always had the bad habit of spending more than I have. Now that I've got this porn bullshit mostly taken care of, I will be focusing my energy on starting to get this part of my life in order now.

You all have a great porn-free day.
 
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Blondie

Blondie

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Day 654
76 days to two years
8 days of no O

GBS said:
The Tarzan reference literally made me LOL. Nice one. I am giving thought(and then dismissing the thought almost immediately) to trying cold showers. Let you know, mate.
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You could always give it a shot and see what you think. The nice thing about a shower is that you're not committed to the cold and all you have to do is turn it hot again if you so desire. I haven't noticed any benefits yet besides just knowing that mentally I did the opposite of what I love, that is, sitting in hot shower for way longer than anyone should. I mean, hot showers are up there with some of my favorite things in life, thus, to literally do the opposite, makes you feel kind of manly :cool:.
 
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First_step_thousand_miles

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Blondie said:
Day 654
76 days to two years
8 days of no O


You could always give it a shot and see what you think. The nice thing about a shower is that you're not committed to the cold and all you have to do is turn it hot again if you so desire. I haven't noticed any benefits yet besides just knowing that mentally I did the opposite of what I love, that is, sitting in hot shower for way longer than anyone should. I mean, hot showers are up there with some of my favorite things in life, thus, to literally do the opposite, makes you feel kind of manly :cool:.
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Love it man! It really does become easier as you cross the minute mark, great habit to continue. Making noises absolutely helps. just need to make sure no one thinks you're dying in there lol
 
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Blondie said:
Day 654
76 days to two years
8 days of no O


You could always give it a shot and see what you think. The nice thing about a shower is that you're not committed to the cold and all you have to do is turn it hot again if you so desire. I haven't noticed any benefits yet besides just knowing that mentally I did the opposite of what I love, that is, sitting in hot shower for way longer than anyone should. I mean, hot showers are up there with some of my favorite things in life, thus, to literally do the opposite, makes you feel kind of manly :cool:.
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Aye Blondie, you're killing it like always man, I mean that's the one thing that you are known for since you joined the forum. I wouldn't expect anything less from the main man, the champion himself, the Blondie man.
Keep doing your thing king and stay blessed.
 
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