16 years of porn addiction and difficult penis injury

Yes, your mind is missing porn! Or more accurately the dopamine rush it gives you.
Over time it will get used to getting its high from something else and needing a lot less stimulation to feel good :)

More Power to you Peter! :)
Is it wrong if I do some JELQ's (not too much 30) and little massage of the penis or should I don't touch at all... ?
For example with lube, from bottom of the penis to the top with two fingers... There is a website where one older man 50years old Matt Cock promises to help with Erections.
What if saying "unused disappears" ?
 

Winnerwhoabstains

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Is it wrong if I do some JELQ's (not too much 30) and little massage of the penis or should I don't touch at all... ?
For example with lube, from bottom of the penis to the top with two fingers... There is a website where one older man 50years old Matt Cock promises to help with Erections.
What if saying "unused disappears" ?
What do you think? Do you think that is a good idea?
 

Simon2

Active Member
Ask yourself whether this is helping you overcome your addiction or not? Is this just going to be the first step to using porn again? I MO from time to time and don't think it's a problem... But I also think it makes it harder the next day - it makes me crave more... More of whatever gives me the rush I miss...

Undoubtedly the strongest reboot is one where you stay totally clear of everything and don't even touch yourself for a while. It's not the only way, but that is the most effective way. It's damn hard sometimes...
 
Ask yourself whether this is helping you overcome your addiction or not? Is this just going to be the first step to using porn again? I MO from time to time and don't think it's a problem... But I also think it makes it harder the next day - it makes me crave more... More of whatever gives me the rush I miss...

Undoubtedly the strongest reboot is one where you stay totally clear of everything and don't even touch yourself for a while. It's not the only way, but that is the most effective way. It's damn hard sometimes...
Sure its damn hard But I keep fighting although I saw some pictures.. Quickly switched it off. Result is quite good = 10 days 4 hours without pmo.
 
11 days without porn on a clock. Started feeling some uncomfortable things down there.. probably blue balls. Well nutrition, a lot of liquids. Erection appeared in the morning, but ofc not as strong as while watching P
 
12 day 4 hour no PMO. I feel good although its very powerful saw some pictures and had to turned them off immediately. Otherwise I would relapse by now. Morning wood today. Scrolling too much Instagram I need to calm down a Little bit. But if I had to choose Instagram or Computer games vs porn then ofc 1 options are better!
 
And the relapse omfg.. like I said two weeks are impossible.. I did it without porn tho But I was tempted by pics then gifs and so on.. mission starts again lol
 

Winnerwhoabstains

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I am asking you
My opinion : It is an atrocious idea and it is so bad that it ought to be obvious, and I think you should use your head a bit more. NO, all these various penis messing arounds are not a good idea during your reboot.

Every single one is a bad idea. Touch your penis when you are cleaning yourself in the shower and when you pee during the reboot - that is all.
 
Day 2 - everything was fine. I visited my friend, we played Fifa and later on church. Also some cardio exercises.

Question is what I Masturbated without looking at porn, but earlier I saw some pictures / gifs and that was my trigger ? Of course I reseted the countdown, but small success at least - I didnt finish myself while watching porn.
 
Unfortunately lost it all over again... I am addicted I cant quit. I need to go to psychologist or sth. Reasons ? Boredom and just wanted to check because "friend" seemed lifeless... omg... I am sad now. Why is it so hard to quit this ? Alcohol I can drink or not.. I didnt drink for one month nothing for example. This addiction is very powerful. I promised myself not to lie here and boast with my success... be truthful - so unfortunately again relapse.
 
I am trying all the time, but relapsing and relapsing... Omg.. What is worst I have an injury which worsen right now. I feel pain in the veins (down of the penis) and I did not experience it ever before. Earlier I felt pain but in the other place..
I am very very addicted to it...
Day 1 starts all over again.
 
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