One day is a time.
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Alexey
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Had a run ~3k this morning.
@Androg Thank you. I used to be and seems still is hard and slow on switching between (potential) partners.
The bigger picture is possibly that I have no precise answer to the relationship with sex in my life. Actually most of the time I'm just refusing occasional sexual impulses. But how long will I continue to refuse? Like a typical p guy I'm a timid and inept dealing with actual relationships. I'm not young at the same time and everything is good at the appropriate time (not always impossible at another time however). If I want to have a family and children I have to start soon.
Possibly the absence of the answer may lead to conflict and to PMO.
cut screen time – one hour before bed, one hour after bed
14hrs no p videos, no p pics, no gaming
One day is a Time
@Androg Thank you. I used to be and seems still is hard and slow on switching between (potential) partners.
The bigger picture is possibly that I have no precise answer to the relationship with sex in my life. Actually most of the time I'm just refusing occasional sexual impulses. But how long will I continue to refuse? Like a typical p guy I'm a timid and inept dealing with actual relationships. I'm not young at the same time and everything is good at the appropriate time (not always impossible at another time however). If I want to have a family and children I have to start soon.
Possibly the absence of the answer may lead to conflict and to PMO.
cut screen time – one hour before bed, one hour after bed
14hrs no p videos, no p pics, no gaming
One day is a Time
Alexey
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@Androg
It seems that there is no single answer to digital addiction. It could be solved only in complexity: social connections, digital hygiene/off screen gaps, sport (I began running for ex), hobbies, of course.
Yet first of all social connections -- if not actual, then one should think about close people, damaging your life inevitably damages relations and lives of people who possibly still think and care of you.
Still have uneasy times. No p videos/orgasms for 11 days, however viewed sexual pics about three times.
One day is a Time
It seems that there is no single answer to digital addiction. It could be solved only in complexity: social connections, digital hygiene/off screen gaps, sport (I began running for ex), hobbies, of course.
Yet first of all social connections -- if not actual, then one should think about close people, damaging your life inevitably damages relations and lives of people who possibly still think and care of you.
Still have uneasy times. No p videos/orgasms for 11 days, however viewed sexual pics about three times.
One day is a Time
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Alexey
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I've been on a Yoga tour for about 9 days. We lived near the sea coast and the physical activity was rather essential for me (two hour sessions a day). Besides that the group consisted mainly of women. Some were rather pretty.
Interestingly I didn't even have urges. Even despite that we touch and hug each other from time to time as a part of practice.
I feel like a mouse from the known experiment with cocaine water, who refuses to drink it when in a healthy environment.
Yet now I'm back and it seems stress and urges eventually return
No PMO for 24 days
One day is a Time
Interestingly I didn't even have urges. Even despite that we touch and hug each other from time to time as a part of practice.
I feel like a mouse from the known experiment with cocaine water, who refuses to drink it when in a healthy environment.
Yet now I'm back and it seems stress and urges eventually return
No PMO for 24 days
One day is a Time
Percival
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I've often found that it's hardest when you return to normal life, since porn is (or was) part of your normal life. Especially when stress (or tiredness, or hunger, or...etc) triggers the feeling. Doing pushups, or anything really, to get yourself out of the temptation moment helps, although I know that's easier said than done.
Alexey
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Had a wet dream tonight. Before that I had a quite intense day. Unlikely it was stressful if stress involves negativity however. Besides that I was not careful with nutrition and consumed some alcohol (not so much). And also today I met a young neighbor girl and found her quite attractive sexually and she was nice to me.
Possibly every piece was not so meaningful by itself, but overall it gave an effect.
So I made 36 dry days.
Now I need to stay especially alert and careful for the next 2-3 days.
One day is a Time
Possibly every piece was not so meaningful by itself, but overall it gave an effect.
So I made 36 dry days.
Now I need to stay especially alert and careful for the next 2-3 days.
One day is a Time
