It is amazing, the degree to which the professional world got this one wrong. I talked to a doctor about my problem, many years ago, and was told that it was completely normal. That avenue of assistance wasn't going to yield anything useful. It's taken decades and the advent of the Internet to make the truth inescapable, but countless lives were destroyed in the meantime.Gracie said:Who knew that porn could cause so much pain? Who knew it was not harmless? Who knew it could shake relationships to their very foundation?