FlyPhoenix
Active Member
Thanks for dropping in Joe, I sometimes forget the things I've posted and have started and ended journals here and there, but I'm glad you find it useful.
I can't say I've read that book but I'm searching for the author and just saw some interesting titles I'll try order. I must say my walk with Christ has only begun and I strive to learn as much as I can that is useful in my life, things that will allow me to find peace and connect with people rather than try to criticise; a tendency I have.
One thing for sure; I been able to come this far, not by my own strength, but through God's loving hand working in changing my heart and my mind. I would not have come out of this by myself as my addiction was especially intense and resistant to any form of treatment.
I was so hooked to the combined experience of using alcohol, drugs, porn and sex with hookers that I had resigned myself to the most pitiful death. It was only when I opened my heart to Christ that I began to heal. In fact, it was only when I started to dedicate myself to drawing closer to Christ that the real growth began.
Today a manager of mine called a meeting for 14h00 but kept delaying and delaying, and I'm already the type of person who doesn't like meetings. I get easily anxious and the delay only caused more anxiety in me. By the time the meeting began at 15h00 I was already angry at her and I struggled to steady my voice, the old feeling in the belly assaulted me and I was very restless.
But when I recalled the scripture John 10:10 I felt some calm and peace enter me. I walked out a bit more stable and was able to return to a feeling of security but I knew that I needed to share this here, which is helping. We cannot afford to believe that we can endure the negative feelings, we need to persevere and seek spiritual growth.
Counting days doesn't work, each day must bring us further from our addictive mind and closer to a healthy mind, so tonight I will attend an SAA meeting and share again. I will report to my group that I have ordered literature and exercise later then talk to my girl.
Now that I'm writing I realise the reason I've started to feel restless is that I procrastinated. I left things until after this meeting and now that I've crossed off items on my list of things to do I am feeling less stressed. I have only a couple of things to get through now, so I have more peace.
It is not about the other people in my life, but about my relationship to what I have to do while I am here in this life, the things that are important and the things that are vital. It is about my relationship to myself and others, my ability to meet my agreements with grace and do what I have promised.
I sometimes have this enormous weight on my heart and on my shoulders that I will some day be responsible for a family and: will I make it? Will I be able to hold things together emotionally and not run away.
I won't lie I get scared about this. But as my sponsor always says, these are the times we must hand all this over to God. I am thankful to have a sponsor to have this forum to have some sort of recovery and to have a meeting to attend later today.
Until later..
I can't say I've read that book but I'm searching for the author and just saw some interesting titles I'll try order. I must say my walk with Christ has only begun and I strive to learn as much as I can that is useful in my life, things that will allow me to find peace and connect with people rather than try to criticise; a tendency I have.
One thing for sure; I been able to come this far, not by my own strength, but through God's loving hand working in changing my heart and my mind. I would not have come out of this by myself as my addiction was especially intense and resistant to any form of treatment.
I was so hooked to the combined experience of using alcohol, drugs, porn and sex with hookers that I had resigned myself to the most pitiful death. It was only when I opened my heart to Christ that I began to heal. In fact, it was only when I started to dedicate myself to drawing closer to Christ that the real growth began.
Today a manager of mine called a meeting for 14h00 but kept delaying and delaying, and I'm already the type of person who doesn't like meetings. I get easily anxious and the delay only caused more anxiety in me. By the time the meeting began at 15h00 I was already angry at her and I struggled to steady my voice, the old feeling in the belly assaulted me and I was very restless.
But when I recalled the scripture John 10:10 I felt some calm and peace enter me. I walked out a bit more stable and was able to return to a feeling of security but I knew that I needed to share this here, which is helping. We cannot afford to believe that we can endure the negative feelings, we need to persevere and seek spiritual growth.
Counting days doesn't work, each day must bring us further from our addictive mind and closer to a healthy mind, so tonight I will attend an SAA meeting and share again. I will report to my group that I have ordered literature and exercise later then talk to my girl.
Now that I'm writing I realise the reason I've started to feel restless is that I procrastinated. I left things until after this meeting and now that I've crossed off items on my list of things to do I am feeling less stressed. I have only a couple of things to get through now, so I have more peace.
It is not about the other people in my life, but about my relationship to what I have to do while I am here in this life, the things that are important and the things that are vital. It is about my relationship to myself and others, my ability to meet my agreements with grace and do what I have promised.
I sometimes have this enormous weight on my heart and on my shoulders that I will some day be responsible for a family and: will I make it? Will I be able to hold things together emotionally and not run away.
I won't lie I get scared about this. But as my sponsor always says, these are the times we must hand all this over to God. I am thankful to have a sponsor to have this forum to have some sort of recovery and to have a meeting to attend later today.
Until later..