1Kdavid said:
Feeling anxious today for some reason. Like I want to speed time ahead and be at the end of May with like a 30 day no PMO streak going. I can't so I'm frustrated. Time seems to move so slow on an upward climb but you can lose it all in just a few seconds.
Hi, King David.
Make a decision, and leave the rest in God's hands. Just be watchful first over your heart, then over your circumstances- but leave the doing to God.
Many folk at work, at the start of a day- but especially at the start of the work week- bemoan how long it will be before quitting time, and it's a groan that follows them throughout the day. They only make their day longer, and cause more suffering to themselves when they do that.
Me, I don't look at the clock necessarily. I put the time-factor out of my mind, and pay no attention to it. I've already a mindset that treats each moment the same, whether I'm at work or at home, I seek to just be in the moment. I'm not wholly perfect about this (as the day before my 'Monday' is a challenge), but I know it's all in how I perceive things.
The same is true about your reboot. It's a paradox, we know that we need to give due focus to what causes us to fall, but at the same time, if we're always thinking about it it's almost the same as if we're doing it- and we may as well be.
Put this stuff out of your mind as much as possible, and the end of May will be here before you know it.
You joined SAA, perhaps for the support- just be mindful not to be too mindful of this stuff. The more you can just go about your day without constantly focusing on sexual issues, the more you'll be free of obsessive and compulsive behaviors, and the more relaxed you'll be when it comes to your wife and her needs. Save it all for her, for her and for you- enjoy her and be thankful that she's not frigid, lol...
You can do this, man- I believe in you. Pick those 5 small stones of grace out of the brook of the Holy Spirit, and fell that nasty giant in your way.