Hey everyone. It's been a while. Hope you are doing well. It feels like I could easily write 10 pages about whats going in my life right now, but I'll try to keep it shorter
and get to the point.
I mentioned before that I went to a retreat where I was going to practice something called Rebirthing. I'd like to share my experiences about that as well as how I feel in life right now.
Firstly, the retreat. It's really helped me. During those 3 days I came in contact with some deep issues that I got to partly resolve and release. On the first day I discovered my fear of not belonging to this world, not having a place. It's a feeling I've had for as long as I can remember. Like this deep dark cut in my chest. "There is no place for me here. I won't be loved". I was able to be present with this feeling, experiencing myself as a little infant being completely helpless in all of it, and finally come to terms with it and release it. It was so powerful and beautiful. During the experience I was also shown my soul before my birth, and the hesitation I felt as I was entering my unborn body. I was shown my origins, among distant stars and it was explained to me why I've had so much trouble being stable here. Such incredible experience.. to think it was all created within my mind only through breathing.
On the second day I came deeper into myself and came in contact with a blockage I haven't been able to reach before. It was surrounding issues I have about claiming my own personal power as an individual and as a sexual person. I was so frustrated over having had this in my life for such a long time that a deep, guttural scream came out of me. It was more of a primal roar.. and I could feel the energy rush through me. It was a very powerful and sexual energy. After having released that I felt nauseous, weak and broken. Like a part of me had been ripped out (which it basically had - energetically). It took me the whole day to stabilize and come back to myself.
On the third day as I went into the breathing I found that I could just go deeper and deeper into myself. The cleansing from the day before had left a void within me, and I felt a need to go into it and explore it. I've never taken such intense and deep breaths before. It was as if my whole body became an instrument for the universe to breathe through. It felt like my whole body was one big pair of lungs. In that I came in contact with my lifeforce and was filled to the brim with never-ending amounts of pure energy. It's one of the best experiences I've had.. quite similar to the sensations of LSD and MDMA. I'm amazed that our brains can create these experiences. I was lyrical and blissful. All I could do was laugh and surrender to my being and I was so thankful for being me. It was so healing. My inner child appeared before me and we connected. He told me that the "big" me was being born now, and that he had been waiting. He also told me he wanted me to start connecting more with people, especially women. He wants me to play more, to dance more, to kiss and hug more. To explore sex. It was hilarious being lectured by this little boy about my sexual life. I cried with laughter, but at the same time it was so beautiful. I was also shown the entirety of the defensive patterns I've built around myself during my life.. what a waste of energy it is for me to try to stabilize and maintain that structure, how fragile it actually is, and it no longer serves me. Again I just laughed and laughed.. it was so comical to see the adult me try to hold that thing together. Putting so much energy into it. I pittied myself for it. I was shown that I no longer need to identify myself with those patterns any more. I no longer need to be afraid of connecting with others, being sexual or being powerful.. that's the past. We are all connection.
I am so thankful to have had this experience and have had the courage to do the work that's been asked of me. So much cleansing.. It was divine.
I can feel the changes afterwards. My body has become lighter. The muscles in my chest and abdomen have become more relaxed, which in turn allows me to breathe deeper and natural. I have also become more energetic and playful.. I find myself dancing spontaneously when I hear music. I love it. I've also become more sensitive and susceptible to energies around me. My mood swings a lot because of that.. But I see it as a natural part of the process. If I hadn't been this sensitive I wouldn't have found the urge to practice meditation and mindfulness
My sensitivity also allows experiences I have stored in my body to surface so I can process and release them. I often cry. Either out of grief, or out of joy. I'm touched by the world in beautiful ways.
I've always seen crying as one of our most powerful tools, and one of our most beautiful experiences. You know that feeling of finally being able to cry.. it's such a loving and soothing feeling. Pure surrender.
So yeah, I'm having some incredible experiences at the moment. My inner spiritual work is starting to move into a new phase as I am given opportunities to release the last of my blockages. But it's not easy. I often have to face a lot of pain, but you know.. That's ok. Pain does not equal suffering. While in pain I experience a full range of emotions.. and I often find myself experiencing joy, love and gratitude while in pain. It's because I understand I can view it from a greater perspective and see how the pain part of the healing.
Thank you, spirit, for allowing this experience to surface within me so I can be present with it.
Thank you for holding me through it, especially during the times I want to give up because I believe I can't handle it.
Thank you for finally allowing me to heal the wounds from my past lives and this life.. Thank you.
Right now I'm practicing meditation daily. I've also started to practice graitude after being inspired by FreeSoul's journey (have a look at his journal here: http://legacy.rebootnation.org/index.php?topic=6247.50)
Since me and my ex stopped seeing each other I've been struggling with some negative patterns. But that is also stabilizing now, and I'm finding my way back. I believe I can move on and back into myself again.
This post becamse really long. Thanks for the patience if you've read this far haha. Life is waiting for us! Leeeeeeet's goooo!