sunborn
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Change is the new constant. I keep hearing it. And recent events in my life just solidify that.. last week I was told I won't be hired after my internship which was a bit disappointing. I see it as a great possibility though. This means that life wants to prepare me for something else. Something better. I've started looking for some new jobs now, and I'm open to moving abroad. I have a feeling this will turn out really good.
What else.. I got sick last week. Spent a few days getting better. Often when I weak and exhausted I turn to porn. It's my coping mechanism.. the old habit is really strong. Positive is that the habit is growing weaker, even if I keep on falling back into it. I haven't been able to go to the gym either or go out dancing. Which sucks. My body has been really restless. I feel good enough to go tomorrow though. Looking forward to getting back on track! Next week I'm doing some rebirthing sessions again which I've been looking forward to a lot. I think I'll be able to heal more deep parts of me.
Coolest thing though! I'm meeting a girl this week. I guess you could call it a date? haha. Shit. I'm scared. It's been more than a year since I went on a date with a new girl. But I'm doing it! we met at a rave a few weeks ago and danced and kissed a bit. It was nice. We have been talking on and off since then. We seem to have a lot in common. She is also a person who has done a lot of inner healing work, and has a spiritual outlook on life. I'm curious to see how it will be to get together. My inner child feels threatened of the possibility for connection. I keep on getting thoughts like "but what if we end up actually liking each other, I don't want that.. it's to risky letting her in". I try to honor this part of me. The pain I have felt in the past has been very real. But it's not where I am today.. these patterns have to go, but the only way to set them free is to dive into them.
The person I was one year ago would never have been able to go on this date. He would just run away. I've grown so much in one year. Who knows. In one year's time I might be free from porn.
We'll see how it goes haha.
What else.. I got sick last week. Spent a few days getting better. Often when I weak and exhausted I turn to porn. It's my coping mechanism.. the old habit is really strong. Positive is that the habit is growing weaker, even if I keep on falling back into it. I haven't been able to go to the gym either or go out dancing. Which sucks. My body has been really restless. I feel good enough to go tomorrow though. Looking forward to getting back on track! Next week I'm doing some rebirthing sessions again which I've been looking forward to a lot. I think I'll be able to heal more deep parts of me.
Coolest thing though! I'm meeting a girl this week. I guess you could call it a date? haha. Shit. I'm scared. It's been more than a year since I went on a date with a new girl. But I'm doing it! we met at a rave a few weeks ago and danced and kissed a bit. It was nice. We have been talking on and off since then. We seem to have a lot in common. She is also a person who has done a lot of inner healing work, and has a spiritual outlook on life. I'm curious to see how it will be to get together. My inner child feels threatened of the possibility for connection. I keep on getting thoughts like "but what if we end up actually liking each other, I don't want that.. it's to risky letting her in". I try to honor this part of me. The pain I have felt in the past has been very real. But it's not where I am today.. these patterns have to go, but the only way to set them free is to dive into them.
The person I was one year ago would never have been able to go on this date. He would just run away. I've grown so much in one year. Who knows. In one year's time I might be free from porn.
We'll see how it goes haha.