Day 129 clean of P
Today I'm in temptation, my demon. My brain is craving a bit. I'm like 15-20% and it starts to be painful.
I have the intuition it's because I'm worried about something. My natural tendency is to avoid the problems of my life with P, so let's look closely to every part of my life and try to get a bit of perspective withour running away.
First of all my job. Today I started to search for a new job for the summer. I must confess that it was a bit harder than I thought, so that might be something that worries me.
I still have 1 and a half months of contract, but the sole thought of running away of money haunts me. Let's just focus and don't invent imaginary problems yet, when I still have time and I'm doing something about it.
The other day I kissed a girl and it had been a long time since my last kiss, like 8 months. In general I think that's good, but what worries me is that human relationships are so complicated.
I mean to get that kiss there's so much involved. And we didn't do much more. So limits are a "problem". You know, P is so immeadiate and fast, there's so much adrenaline involved. I remember how my heart pumped the last time I pipped those images for 20 seconds. And today I had a rush just for thinking about it when I saw a triggering non P image.
Images don't have personality or interaction, they can't reject you. You don't have to call them bla bla. And I think I feel much more atracted to P than to real girls.
Now that I'm not as dependant as I used to be, connecting with girls is more difficult, cause before I connected with dependant girls whith whome I developed a dependant relationship.
Now everything is much more dull. And I guess my ansiety doesn't help me with my charm. But I've gotta realise that I've got to recover before I can be really charming and attract high quality women I guess. I've got to fix many things of my life, such as ansiety and money. Step by step.
But I do miss P today.
Lately I realised one of my closest friends laughs at me when he's drunk and I don't like that at all.
My mother is leaving the flat somedays and that is good.
I'm kind of training lately.
I feel a bit nervous sometimes and stuff and I just try to calm myself.
My relationship with God is relatively good.
I still got debt, but today I finished paying one of my 3 debts, wich has been kind of cool. It's been pretty reliefing to pay that away, plus if I need the money again they will lend it to me straight away. Next month I will pay even less interest and I will be able to pay even more debt away.
My room is fairly tidy.
My clothes are pretty ok and stuff.
So probably it's for the job changes and for the chick I kissed.
I kind of wish I could date a really hot chick but the truth is that she might be hot, but untill I fix some things of my life I will attract chicks with issues. Even if I did, I would have to deal with her personality
I believe I attract what I am.
I wanna heal, don't want to through away all these months for a rush that will give me a lot of ansiety later on.