Fellas -
Day 42 has been a killer one. I fell down a sub hole today. I fled, but I'm seeing this has been a massive struggle for me during this reboot.
The good:
I had full access to P on my wife's computer while she was gone. Did not look at P. Wanted to M multiple times, never came to O.
The Bad: I spent probably a half hour or more edging to subs. I'd start a video, then run. Start a movie, then run. It was not a full blown relapse, but it certainly wasn't a victorious day either. I wanted something so bad, I convinced myself even a little wouldn't hurt. No nudity, mainly kissing and the beginning of certain "scenes".
I'm committing here, that although I'm not resetting my counter from this, because ultimately I think it was a win (no P), that if I edge to subs or M again, I reset the counter. I also changed my counter to include edging, which is a big issue for me, and I know that causes setbacks.
Pretty frustrated over today, but honestly, I'm choosing not to embrace shame, and embrace grace instead. Proverbs says a godly man falls down 7x but gets back up. This is a long, grueling process, and the last week has been hell. I"m not fixating on this, I'm moving on.