Day 40
Everything just keeps getting better. It's unbelievable to think how stupid I really was. I had this beautiful person right in front of me that I just didn't seem to appreciate her. Life is so much better under these circumstances and I'd never want to change that for anything. Really, porn sucks. I was such an idiot for letting that take over my brains. I'm feeling alive, awake and drawn to my wife in every way. I hope this never ends.
@Emil, thanks for your reply man. I'm amazed how much of a dick it made me. To answer your questions:
1. I honestly haven't had urges. It's so strange, but I know I should be aware of them coming later. A couple days after my wife found out I showed her a porn video that I used to watch pretty often. I saw part of it, but it was just there and it went again. I've read so much about porn addiction, the harms to people and how silly it really is. Also, the shock from nearly losing my wife helped a lot I think. There's just nothing to be gained from porn, it's empty, it's trash. The more of real life I experience, the further away it becomes.
2. Yeah you're right. I don't write too much about it here but it helps a lot. I've actually started to read the bible each day. Trying to read about half an hour and just going through from start to finish. The old testamanet isn't too hopeful but there are some good lessons in there. Prayer helps and I've also taken contact with the priest from my church.
@Chris, Fortify is an app / website aimed at overcoming porn addiction. I don't mean to spam about them but I think it really helps me. You can for free try some things out and else it's like 10? a month or something. You can find them on joinfortify.com.
@Kopp, thanks as always. Life is smiling at me again
40 days. The first 30-something were shit but the last few have felt incredibly good.
Everything just keeps getting better. It's unbelievable to think how stupid I really was. I had this beautiful person right in front of me that I just didn't seem to appreciate her. Life is so much better under these circumstances and I'd never want to change that for anything. Really, porn sucks. I was such an idiot for letting that take over my brains. I'm feeling alive, awake and drawn to my wife in every way. I hope this never ends.
@Emil, thanks for your reply man. I'm amazed how much of a dick it made me. To answer your questions:
1. I honestly haven't had urges. It's so strange, but I know I should be aware of them coming later. A couple days after my wife found out I showed her a porn video that I used to watch pretty often. I saw part of it, but it was just there and it went again. I've read so much about porn addiction, the harms to people and how silly it really is. Also, the shock from nearly losing my wife helped a lot I think. There's just nothing to be gained from porn, it's empty, it's trash. The more of real life I experience, the further away it becomes.
2. Yeah you're right. I don't write too much about it here but it helps a lot. I've actually started to read the bible each day. Trying to read about half an hour and just going through from start to finish. The old testamanet isn't too hopeful but there are some good lessons in there. Prayer helps and I've also taken contact with the priest from my church.
@Chris, Fortify is an app / website aimed at overcoming porn addiction. I don't mean to spam about them but I think it really helps me. You can for free try some things out and else it's like 10? a month or something. You can find them on joinfortify.com.
@Kopp, thanks as always. Life is smiling at me again
40 days. The first 30-something were shit but the last few have felt incredibly good.