My motivation is low today. I've recognised that I do get dips in form every month, maybe for a few days, then my mood lifts. The tank seems empty today though.
These are the days I'm vulnerable. On these days I want something to lift my mood, something to make me feel "normal."
As far as i can see I was derailed New Years Eve. 90 days clean, everything was going well, I could manage. Then a few drinks with friends. Anxiety returned, and I can see I'm not the same. I am struggling. I always got depressed after drinking. And my solution for feeling down was always to watch porn.
My guess is, if I wasn't a porn addict, I would have been an alcoholic. I base that on binge drinking and offsetting the negative side effects of that by binge watching porn. Plus alcoholics runs deep in the family, 4 Uncles and 1 brother.
But changing the subject - I dont really have urges to watch porn, but urges for dopamine, and to get that high I know porn is the key. I understand that now.
These are the days I'm vulnerable. On these days I want something to lift my mood, something to make me feel "normal."
As far as i can see I was derailed New Years Eve. 90 days clean, everything was going well, I could manage. Then a few drinks with friends. Anxiety returned, and I can see I'm not the same. I am struggling. I always got depressed after drinking. And my solution for feeling down was always to watch porn.
My guess is, if I wasn't a porn addict, I would have been an alcoholic. I base that on binge drinking and offsetting the negative side effects of that by binge watching porn. Plus alcoholics runs deep in the family, 4 Uncles and 1 brother.
But changing the subject - I dont really have urges to watch porn, but urges for dopamine, and to get that high I know porn is the key. I understand that now.