I am feeling better since I poster earlier today. I can do this. It's hard not to get down sometimes. After I slipped, I wrote in pen on my hand the amount of time I have been trying to recover. Maybe it will help me if I start to relapse, it'll force me to think about how I am slipping again and again. There is no 'just this last time.' It has to end. I can't keep making excuses, and giving in. I need to stick to my guns and live in my integrity, and that means actively trying and doing everything in my power to not watch. I have free will, I need to exercise my abilities to protect myself from myself, and do everything in my power to reduce risk. I'm just rambling here but it feels good to just get thoughts out of my head.
Today's relapse was the worst. I'm not sure why. I suppose I just came to terms with the fact that I have gotten nowhere. Maybe it will give me a little more drive to resist next time. I know that willpower alone will never work, but I have been trying so many things. Am I not consistent enough? I do lapse on my consistently a lot, almost every weekend my routines slip and then that's when I slip. I guess I need to work on sticking to them every day of the week. here's the current plan:
Wake up at 7:30.
Meditate for a half hour.
Plan out the risks I will face today, and when I might be likely to slip.
Account for them; how can I increase my chances of success?
Plan out my work for the day-what do I need to accomplish?
Plan my daily walk, my lunchtime, my smaller meditations, affirmations, and feelings chart usage.
Plan out my afternoon workout (I should try to make this consistent every day.)
When I am done with my morning routine, I can have my coffee and start the day!
In the evening:
text my accountability partner.
post on the forum how my day went.
what are 3 things I am grateful for?
mark my calendar for my successes.
Today's relapse was the worst. I'm not sure why. I suppose I just came to terms with the fact that I have gotten nowhere. Maybe it will give me a little more drive to resist next time. I know that willpower alone will never work, but I have been trying so many things. Am I not consistent enough? I do lapse on my consistently a lot, almost every weekend my routines slip and then that's when I slip. I guess I need to work on sticking to them every day of the week. here's the current plan:
Wake up at 7:30.
Meditate for a half hour.
Plan out the risks I will face today, and when I might be likely to slip.
Account for them; how can I increase my chances of success?
Plan out my work for the day-what do I need to accomplish?
Plan my daily walk, my lunchtime, my smaller meditations, affirmations, and feelings chart usage.
Plan out my afternoon workout (I should try to make this consistent every day.)
When I am done with my morning routine, I can have my coffee and start the day!
In the evening:
text my accountability partner.
post on the forum how my day went.
what are 3 things I am grateful for?
mark my calendar for my successes.