I hate the person I am. I hate that I chose porn over her, even though the writing is on the wall. I hate all of this, but I need to get a handle on it. I need to make the right decision every day, not just most days. It's so hard. Why is it so hard? Why is it some people seem to have such an easy time with it?
I feel awful. She's so unhappy, she's trapped here with me and I keep choosing porn over her. She's miserable like this and this past week was my big chance to make things different, and I fucked it up. I'm getting another chance, but is this time going to be different? Am I just going to forget again? How am I going to maintain my motivation if I relapsed within a week of the worst part of my relationship? And if I can't get a handle on this and I lose her, it's going to get so much harder. I don't know if I could do this alone. I don't want to be left without her, with only porn. I don't want to be lonely and only have that. I need to recover but I keep acting like I can have my cake and eat it too, which I can't. How do I remember that?