Hey WWalker19!
Congrats for deciding to make this a new lifestyle for you. I will start by saying this you need a porn blocker on ALL of your devices and if possible you need a good friend or two to be your accountability partner. I use covenant eyes as my blocker and it?s amazing. I have 3 friends who get a report everyday of what I am looking at they even get screenshots of my internet activity even if it?s a good report. I am currently on day 48 so I?m past all the crazy withdrawals you get a first. Trust me man you will get there. But you NEED porn blocker with your friends attached to that account so when you look you will basically have to explain yourself. Ideally you want it to be someone you would be ashamed if they saw what you were looking at it?s motivation to not look.
I will also say this get rid of ALL stimulation from Social media(Instagram,Facebook , Tik tok and Twitter) all of these are very triggering especially in the beginning. If you are on these social media platforms and you feel yourself becoming sexually stimulated in any way (even if you don?t get an erection). You will know this feeling because once you go through no PMO for at least 2 weeks and you see a stimulating image you will feel it in your brain. I have deactivated my Facebook and Instagram because even though I had stopped PMO and had my blockers on my decvices I noticed I was seeing pictures in Social media over time I realized they were stimulating me. Some of the pictures weren?t even like sexual in nature but my mind took it there.
Here is what I will say keep this motto : ?If it ain?t real NO deal?. Anything that stimulates you sexually or makes you think sexually from a screen whether it?s a sexual pic or non sexual avoid and get rid of it. As far as sex with your GF I would recommend doing 90 days no sex but obviously if you are going to Orgasm make sure it is with her. You want to at least try to make it 1-2 months. You may have to take awhile because you started very young (like I did at 8 years old).
Keep going man you got this! Figuring out the triggers and live in the present. It?s going to be challenging cause you will realize you watch Porn to deal with every negative emotion and you will have to find another way to transfer it.
Congrats for deciding to make this a new lifestyle for you. I will start by saying this you need a porn blocker on ALL of your devices and if possible you need a good friend or two to be your accountability partner. I use covenant eyes as my blocker and it?s amazing. I have 3 friends who get a report everyday of what I am looking at they even get screenshots of my internet activity even if it?s a good report. I am currently on day 48 so I?m past all the crazy withdrawals you get a first. Trust me man you will get there. But you NEED porn blocker with your friends attached to that account so when you look you will basically have to explain yourself. Ideally you want it to be someone you would be ashamed if they saw what you were looking at it?s motivation to not look.
I will also say this get rid of ALL stimulation from Social media(Instagram,Facebook , Tik tok and Twitter) all of these are very triggering especially in the beginning. If you are on these social media platforms and you feel yourself becoming sexually stimulated in any way (even if you don?t get an erection). You will know this feeling because once you go through no PMO for at least 2 weeks and you see a stimulating image you will feel it in your brain. I have deactivated my Facebook and Instagram because even though I had stopped PMO and had my blockers on my decvices I noticed I was seeing pictures in Social media over time I realized they were stimulating me. Some of the pictures weren?t even like sexual in nature but my mind took it there.
Here is what I will say keep this motto : ?If it ain?t real NO deal?. Anything that stimulates you sexually or makes you think sexually from a screen whether it?s a sexual pic or non sexual avoid and get rid of it. As far as sex with your GF I would recommend doing 90 days no sex but obviously if you are going to Orgasm make sure it is with her. You want to at least try to make it 1-2 months. You may have to take awhile because you started very young (like I did at 8 years old).
Keep going man you got this! Figuring out the triggers and live in the present. It?s going to be challenging cause you will realize you watch Porn to deal with every negative emotion and you will have to find another way to transfer it.