Finally, I'm doing this…

Ezel

Respected Member
day 3.

Here’s a sampling of the comments of heavy porn users about life without
Internet porn. Some have been sharing their progress for months.

After 5 weeks of no porn and shifting to making love without the goal of orgasm,
I'm happy to report my struggles with delayed ejaculation are over. For me it was
simply a matter of 1) stop using porn and 2) start making love without worrying
about having an orgasm. I seem to easily reach orgasm at a frequency of about
once a week or so. Learning about brain plasticity has made me confident that I
can learn just about anything -- even emotional and sexual intimacy. I'm
practicing mindfulness and acceptance in my relationship and I find this is
helping me improve in these areas.
 

Blondie

Respected Member
I'm sorry to hear this @Ezel. Is there anything in particular that is setting you off course? Emotions or just life situations at the moment? Of course, consecutive relapses within a short amount of time always lead the brain wanting it more than usual. It's a battle man but I know you can do it.

Love you

Blondie
 

FreedomFromTheStruggle_11

Well-Known Member
You've got this, man. I know right now it's difficult for you. However, bro, you've crushed it before. You've had so much success, that I wished I could get to your number of days clean. So many dudes here look at you as an inspiration. Don't let the pain of now, put fog around the success you've had before. I wouldn't have made a month, without you here pushing me and I wouldn't have gotten back up all the time, without you here to encourage me. You can do this, because you have before. You're stronger than this addiction makes you think. I believe in you, bro.
 

Ezel

Respected Member
day 3.

thanks, @Blondie @FreedomFromTheStruggle_11 @Androg i appreciate the support, I really do.
if it weren't for you and this forum, I would be somewhere in that filthy swamp looking for my next hit that will get me off. but we all know that it only gets worse, and you only do yourself a disservice.

after those many ejaculations that left me with no energy at all, I was shocked by my performance at work, I was forgetting things a lot, I wasn't able to do some very basic tasks. even my coworkers would tell me if I'm okay or did I get enough sleep or I didn't eat well. if only they knew what was going on, only then it will make sense to them.
 

Androg

Administrator
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day 3.

thanks, @Blondie @FreedomFromTheStruggle_11 @Androg i appreciate the support, I really do.
if it weren't for you and this forum, I would be somewhere in that filthy swamp looking for my next hit that will get me off. but we all know that it only gets worse, and you only do yourself a disservice.

after those many ejaculations that left me with no energy at all, I was shocked by my performance at work, I was forgetting things a lot, I wasn't able to do some very basic tasks. even my coworkers would tell me if I'm okay or did I get enough sleep or I didn't eat well. if only they knew what was going on, only then it will make sense to them.
Congratulations on your progress! Keep up the good work💪
 
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