GBS
Respected Member
Thanks @Blondie
You know what they say in life, things never quite turn out as bad as you expect (most certainly when you have phenomenally low expectations).
Session was good and cordial. A great deal based on increased empathy by me. Sliding into what is called middle circle behaviour without quote “flirting” but still having (allegedly) groomed women into my fold, various women are slightly more delighted to see me (still) than they should be. I don’t invite this and indeed have grown used to be a bit generally colder. But that doesn’t mean the women change and it still hurts wife’s feelings. Can’t change the past, but can recognise the pain that still exists. Wife knows I am not encouraging it but it still hurts so be more aware.
Worked through the need (probably not) for full therapeutic disclosure and wife said she acknowledged she had to leave that behind.
Food for thought. No, sex was not even mentioned. No problem.
You know what they say in life, things never quite turn out as bad as you expect (most certainly when you have phenomenally low expectations).
Session was good and cordial. A great deal based on increased empathy by me. Sliding into what is called middle circle behaviour without quote “flirting” but still having (allegedly) groomed women into my fold, various women are slightly more delighted to see me (still) than they should be. I don’t invite this and indeed have grown used to be a bit generally colder. But that doesn’t mean the women change and it still hurts wife’s feelings. Can’t change the past, but can recognise the pain that still exists. Wife knows I am not encouraging it but it still hurts so be more aware.
Worked through the need (probably not) for full therapeutic disclosure and wife said she acknowledged she had to leave that behind.
Food for thought. No, sex was not even mentioned. No problem.