Galatians51
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day 20
Just listened to this episode, thanks @Beautiful1973
I think I'm somewhat of an odd case, considering that I grew up as a teenager with high speed internet and yet i never used porn to watch others having sex (actually I avoided seeing any of content like that)... for some reason I'm more like the guys that Gabe mentions in that episode that grew up before the internet and only looked at playboy magazines... however doing so on the internet allows you to look at a lot more of those images, and a lot faster, and video... but I think I'm also odd in the sense that I always wanted to quit and would regularly go for anywhere of 1 week to 6 months of no usage, but then find myself falling back to it.
I guess I wish there was more information about people that struggled like have... it seems like most of the information out there is for people that really went hardcore into porn and suffered physically because of it. The one article on BYOP that I referenced in an earlier post mentions that intermittent usage with large gaps in between could be somehow more addictive or harder to break the habit of than constant use... it doesn't mention any sort of advice for a person in that scenario - I want to know what is there - if anything - that I can do to quit repeating that cycle... Maybe I'm already doing all that can be done, limiting my technology (only using a dumb phone and then my computer at work), not watching any movies/tv, and being on this forum for accountability. I also don't know if that should be a permanent lifestyle change, or if after a few years be able to go back to using technology more. I'm willing to be the odd guy that doesn't have a smart phone and doesn't watch tv, if that means staying free.
I want to know if what I'm doing is right, or if there is something more that I should do, or if somebody in a scenario like mine has been able to do something different and succeed with.
Maybe there aren't answers for me, but this is what I'm wondering about.
@Galatians51 I absolutely love the Consider before Consuming podcast by Fight the New Drug, it’s a mix of personal accounts, science, facts, but also the darker side of porn like sexual exploitation and sex trafficking, it’s really educational and I could never go back to being ‘OK’ with porn after what I’ve learnt.
I’ll put the link to the episode Gabe Deem did, as it’s the one that really hit home with my man, but they are all fantastic and I’ve listened to every single one over the last few months.
Consider Before Consuming: Gabe Deem: Founder of Reboot Nation, Activist, & Former Porn Addict on Apple Podcasts
Show Consider Before Consuming, Ep Gabe Deem: Founder of Reboot Nation, Activist, & Former Porn Addict - 3 Nov 2020podcasts.apple.com
Just listened to this episode, thanks @Beautiful1973
I think I'm somewhat of an odd case, considering that I grew up as a teenager with high speed internet and yet i never used porn to watch others having sex (actually I avoided seeing any of content like that)... for some reason I'm more like the guys that Gabe mentions in that episode that grew up before the internet and only looked at playboy magazines... however doing so on the internet allows you to look at a lot more of those images, and a lot faster, and video... but I think I'm also odd in the sense that I always wanted to quit and would regularly go for anywhere of 1 week to 6 months of no usage, but then find myself falling back to it.
I guess I wish there was more information about people that struggled like have... it seems like most of the information out there is for people that really went hardcore into porn and suffered physically because of it. The one article on BYOP that I referenced in an earlier post mentions that intermittent usage with large gaps in between could be somehow more addictive or harder to break the habit of than constant use... it doesn't mention any sort of advice for a person in that scenario - I want to know what is there - if anything - that I can do to quit repeating that cycle... Maybe I'm already doing all that can be done, limiting my technology (only using a dumb phone and then my computer at work), not watching any movies/tv, and being on this forum for accountability. I also don't know if that should be a permanent lifestyle change, or if after a few years be able to go back to using technology more. I'm willing to be the odd guy that doesn't have a smart phone and doesn't watch tv, if that means staying free.
I want to know if what I'm doing is right, or if there is something more that I should do, or if somebody in a scenario like mine has been able to do something different and succeed with.
Maybe there aren't answers for me, but this is what I'm wondering about.