I'm back, but first...
Why I quitted this journey? The struggle is always on my mind and it can be hard sometimes. I think that I lost my motivation! Here are a few key points that have prolonged my downfall:
I learned to live with the addiction, but that was a trick my mind was playing to itself. Let me explain; my mind found a way to cope with porn and masturbation, to keep its dose while still performing through the days under a certain cloud that lied "everything is going well". Basically, I thought I could handle life with the addiction.
A key factor in my detriment has been not desiring the benefits that quitting provides. When I started many years ago I was young and naive, highly sensitive and hopeful, so the promises of the success this journey brings to one's life definitely got me hooked. I was in it for the feeling, for the hero story, looking forward to a bright future that would involve me being highly successful with women and developing high social skills + extreme work productivity and academic performance.
After the years went by and I enjoyed some of the benefits of this journey (but certainly not all and not to the full extend I could have if I had fully succeeded) I also stopped believing in the power of the forbidden fruits. I was in it for the pay but realized I wanted no money. Meaning, I was in it for the benefits but realized I didn't wanted them. And here it becomes deeply philosophical! Why wouldn't I want success? Of course I wanted to taste success, but once I did, I didn't wanted it. The problem is that if I reject success then I am left with failure. And logic leads me to believe I don't want failure neither. Or do I? What a predicament! I should want success, but is seems so strange that I need to convince myself to actively seek it, to convince myself to want it. Is it because the cost is too high?
Certainly I cannot provide solutions to this deep dilemma. But what I can do is open myself to the present moment of reality, put a smile on my face, and follow whatever intuition has led me back here to continue with my journey. I feel like whatever I did before needs to change, and I mean in the deepest aspect of behavior, where intentions come from (the heart, the essence of the mind). The childish reasons that motivated my previous attempts cannot be the same that will fuel my final victory. I have to go very deep within my soul and find the star of guidance for my transformation.
Hope everyone is doing well!