Hi, Patrick- you're not alone in your struggles.
Around the same time as yourself, I've had my own stumbles.
Our emotions are so important in relation to our ongoing struggles and recovery efforts.
Healing is for us, recovery is for us- and we need to fuel hope, we need to feed and nurture hope. It's good that you hope for love, for companionship, for a significant other. That's your dream, invest everything into it, and don't let anything or anyone (especially yourself!) talk you out of it.
I know that when I start doubting my dreams, I undercut my whole recovery effort- which isn't just about the abstinence, but about building an entirely new me, with all my dreams coming true. Recognize those moments as opportunities for the addict-brain to derail us from our goals.
It was, however, a minor setback. Get up, and go again- because, Patrick, you're worth it.