I don't want to lose you hun...

[Vincent]

heeey! never mind. Why should that affect your reboot?

To tell the truth I would be kinda happy to have one of those. I never hade one in my life because I Med just to often.....
As Gane already wrote in one of his previous posts it is the body's way of "checking whether the pipes still work properly".

A wet dream is normal and it is a good sign that you are rebooting. You can also put it like this: PMO = outside input + mechanical stimulation; MO = mechanical stimulation (with inside input if fantasy is included), A wet dream = Orgasm by inside input, or basically by thought/dream) this is actually a very cool thing. I once read about a sex expert that practiced tantra who could control his orgasms by will without touching or any other stimulation. Crazy, what?

So I would not say that this affected anything.

 

[noises1990]

Thanks for the support Vincent! Yeah, it does sound logical enough. Funny that this came 2 days after deleting the FB account. Guess it's related since I used to browse lots of girl profiles , somehow substituting porn novelty.

 

[noises1990]

Well, the new job is .. new... and pretty stressful. But keeps the mind busy. Facebook has been dead for almost a week and I'm already feeling better. Even had more sexy dreams and more morning wood!

Now I'm trying to also cut back on the games and start reading some more! Actually, I'll do that right after finishing this post!

I'm almost on the 90'th day of the reboot... But I think there's still more to come, we'll just have to wait and see. Previously had 45 more days, but M'ed, and guess if I wouldn't have done that, I'd be near my 130th day. I really hope I'll get better and also overcome my fear of intercourse and/or Performance Anxiety. One day I'll realize that sex is more about the connection you're making and enjoyment instead of Performance

 

[noises1990]

Lol, had another wet dream this morning. Is it ok?

 

[Vincent]

depends on what you stock of underwear is doing. If you got to change your pants twice a day from now on it's gonna be hard to keep up the cleaning ;D

hehe, of course it is. I think this is the most normal thing to do.
How is everything else? What's that date of yours doing? still on flatline or did you advance already? 8)

 

[noises1990]

Yeah I kinda feel like I'm still in the flatline! Guess it'll take a few more months... Hopefully it will go away ^_^ Soon at the 90 streak, but I will continue this, not stopping at 90!

 

[SETI]

Yeah I kinda feel like I'm still in the flatline! Guess it'll take a few more months... Hopefully it will go away ^_^ Soon at the 90 streak, but I will continue this, not stopping at 90!

Really strong dude! Do you feel there has been improvements progressively through the three months or did you notice some landmarks at any specific point? I am now aiming for 30 days no-MO and I've gotten steadily more energized and motivated.

 

[fugu]

Lol, had another wet dream this morning. Is it ok?

Wet dreams are totally fine. I've probably had 50+ in the last two years!

Have you seen Gabe's video on it?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=092UH6e0BWA

Seems like you are doing fantastic though! Keep grinding!

 

[noises1990]

Really strong dude! Do you feel there has been improvements progressively through the three months or did you notice some landmarks at any specific point? I am now aiming for 30 days no-MO and I've gotten steadily more energized and motivated.

Well guess it's been a bumpy ride. First few weeks were ok. Saw progressive improvement in morale and energy levels. The last two months though..... Shit... Depression, anxiety and a few panic attacks. I still wake up tired in the morning and have some anxiety/depressed episodes sometimes but the panic attacks are gone. At least for now!
Actually it s been almost 4 months but had two relapses in the first 40 days so I reset my counter.

Got a semi boner today just by sitting behind an attractive woman in the bus....


I do feel like there s more left of the reboot... Idk... I m also a bit shy and highly sensitive so It'll pass some time till I meet my type of girl xD

 

[noises1990]

Maybe just for motivation for other guys I should mention that since I stopped watching porn I've also stopped smoking pot, smoking cigarettes, excessive drinking. Also, I stopped eating meat/milk/eggs. Also worth to mention I found my spiritual side, started praying and last but not least, train harder.

I know some guys will argue, but IMHO hard mode is the best way to do it. It, s hard, sometimes gets suicidal, but idk... It s clean... I feel like a real human being again...

 

[persian29]

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[persian29]

no embedding vids really?

 

[noises1990]

Hahaha! Thanks man for the vid! I needed something like that!

 

[noises1990]

More of a spiritual approach. But I've also been reading some studies that strongly prove that consuming meat is bad for humans' health

 

[jnv]

Hey there. Glad to hear you stopped consuming meat and dairy products!
I myself took the decision to become a vegan 11 months ago and my only regret about it is that I didn't do it earlier.

 

[noises1990]

Hey there. Glad to hear you stopped consuming meat and dairy products!
I myself took the decision to become a vegan 11 months ago and my only regret about it is that I didn't do it earlier.

Thanks man for the support! How's it going with your vegan diet? The bigest problem I have is eating out. Our country is a big meat consumer and we don t have many restaurants with a vegan menu

 

[noises1990]

Lol, had another wet dream this morning. Is it ok?

Wet dreams are totally fine. I've probably had 50+ in the last two years!

Have you seen Gabe's video on it?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=092UH6e0BWA

Seems like you are doing fantastic though! Keep grinding!

Hey man, wanted to ask you have you dealt with PA/PE before/during your reboot? If yes... Are they gone? How did you manage to get over those psychological barriers?

 

[noises1990]

Damn this year has been like an emotional Roller-coaster. It s been good it s been bad, lost a few good people, lost a few bad ones. Had some moments of feeling like heaven and had lots of em feeling like hell. Cant say that I feel very optimistic right now but maybe it s just another bad day. I guess that no matter what, life goes on.
It s been a tough journey so far with lots of wrong turns and bad decisions. Hopefully some day I'll be ok with it.
There must be hope! There must come a better day! We just gotta stay strong!

 

[Vincent]

91 days!!!!! yea!
You did it. Do not focus to much on the results you achieved here! The one and only thing that is important: you did manage to stay away from porn for 90 days. That is the result! you are able to set your goals and to stay true to youself on this behalf!

you can be very proud of yourself. Do not try to search for any special change after these 90 days - because the change already happened in your brain. You said to yourself that you want to manage 90 days without porn - you did it. What else is there that you should not be able to do then? ;D

you are a person that tried and succeeded. It is good to recapitulate what happened in these 90 days - and also in this last year - but do not forget that these happenings were the motivation and stepstones you could use for you. The bad days and the good days are part of your life - you said that yourself! And therefore you accept them and make the best out of it.

I sincerely congratulate you for your achievement here and wish for you to find the inner happiness that you seek!

all the best.

Vincent

 

[qrayzHD]

Wow you have passed the 90 day mark, congratulations, it's all up from here.  ;D