I don't know what to say.

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mtaha2015

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yes sex can bring fantasy and lust.
and fantasy leads to porn and masturbation.

so avoiding sex in first 100 days of reboot is excellent for rebooting process.
it will give break to brain from sexual activities and reset settings.

 
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Rockit

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We've actually cut down on the amount of sex we've been having by quite a lot, and I've only had two orgasms in about two weeks.

I've had some crazy strong urges in the meantime though and it is taking everything I have to not give in. The moment I get home, I seem to want to get off. I knew it would be tough. Didn't know it would be this tough.
 
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dumbdumb

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Yeah the urges are ratcheting up their intensity for me too.  Just stay strong.  It'll get better.  We can do it.
 
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Rockit

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Girlfriend and I are going to experiment with karezza. The orgasms have been a problem for me, and I think the chaser effect is screwing with me. No porn sub's yet, but came super close today. Thank goodness I didn't get too aroused, or I may have been doomed.
 
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fightforlife

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Don?t give in!
You?re doing great so far.
I am experiencing a low these days as well.
But I know in a few days it?s gonna be better again, so let?s stay on track!
 
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dumbdumb

Member
if we weren't trying to have a baby i'd probably be avoiding orgasms too.  keep going my friend.  you can do this.
 
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mtaha2015

Guest
abstinence from sex , porn and fantasy is good for health.
try and experience it.
 
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Rockit

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Eliminating porn and fantasy to the best of my ability. Lack of sex is tough, due to the significant other. Hoping the lack of O will help.

Been a really tough week. More tired than usual.
 
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Rockit

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After some near relapses, I'm going to re-focus beginning today. Meditation is back on the schedule, plus may even consider two cold showers a day.

Gotta go at this strong.
 
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mtaha2015

Guest
rockit good decision.
get back in shape.
may be you are out of control some where.

take out your gauge and start looking whats going wrong in your life.

may be some triggers ?
fantasy ?
or some thing else ?


stay strong... you already did 21 days , now you shouldn't fall down.
 
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fightforlife

Guest
Nice going!
About to hit 4 weeks, mad respect!
Keep on representing the team!
 
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fightforlife

Guest
Hey man, how are you doing?
Haven?t heard of you in days.
Everything alright? If you got trouble, we are here to listen.
 
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Rockit

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need to get better said:
Ha e you experienced any erectile problems?
Click to expand...

Not really, no.

I've been doing really well in terms of keeping busy where I haven't been online much. I had some urges today, so I thought I would post.

This weekend might have been the best weekend I have had in a year, if not longer. I was happier, stuff that normally bothers me didn't, and I found myself focusing on other things rather than being bitter about stupid stuff. It was awesome.

Was surprised to see how close to a month I am. Pretty pumped about that. Gotta stay strong, gotta keep going.
 
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caster

Active Member
Rockit your a rockstar keep it up bud!  We are so close to a month.  If I wont slip you can't either buddy we are in this together
 
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Rockit

Active Member
I'm still shocked I've gone a month without masturbating.  The porn isn't as surprising to me, but I have been tempted.  Limited my orgasms this month as well, although two days in a row with the girlfriend.  (Including one day which was the best both she and I ever had, so I guess that can't be too bad.)

I still catch myself trying to check girls out, and immediately feeling bad and trying not to.  This might take longer than the 90 days, considering how much I've been doing it my whole life.
 
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