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fcjl8

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Good weekend, good Monday!

We even enjoyed a few hours of sun finally , alas clouds are back this evening! Oh well.

Hmmm... some play with my wife on Friday, very sweet and wonderful... no noticeable hangover/chaser so far! This is good! Lots of non-sexual bonding, hugs , hand holding, hanging our close!

NO urges for that addictive behaviour at all!
 
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fcjl8 said:
Good weekend, good Monday!

We even enjoyed a few hours of sun finally , alas clouds are back this evening! Oh well.

Hmmm... some play with my wife on Friday, very sweet and wonderful... no noticeable hangover/chaser so far! This is good! Lots of non-sexual bonding, hugs , hand holding, hanging our close!

NO urges for that addictive behaviour at all!

I am so happy for you both! Great inspiration and good connecting strategy!
 

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fcjl8 said:
Good weekend, good Monday!

We even enjoyed a few hours of sun finally , alas clouds are back this evening! Oh well.

Hmmm... some play with my wife on Friday, very sweet and wonderful... no noticeable hangover/chaser so far! This is good! Lots of non-sexual bonding, hugs , hand holding, hanging our close!

NO urges for that addictive behaviour at all!
That's good to hear, my friend.
 

fcjl8

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Saturday morning... off to a church yard sale with my wife and sis-in-law, then some work on a big truck this afternoon.

No P or m urges this past week, was quite aroused and strong libido mid week, but my wife and I had been enjoying some intimacy and I just focused on good healthy bonding with her.
 

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fcjl8 said:
Saturday morning... off to a church yard sale with my wife and sis-in-law, then some work on a big truck this afternoon.

No P or m urges this past week, was quite aroused and strong libido mid week, but my wife and I had been enjoying some intimacy and I just focused on good healthy bonding with her.
I'm pretty sure that's how it's supposed to work. :) These day I don't consider feeling horny to be a bad thing. It's just a sign or health and virility.
 

fcjl8

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I am clean and free from porn and masturbation.

I am very grateful for this path of freedom. I am very committed to carrying on along this path!

Al the best to everyone at RN!
 

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fcjl8 said:
I am clean and free from porn and masturbation.

I am very grateful for this path of freedom. I am very committed to carrying on along this path!

Al the best to everyone at RN!
Clean as a Safeway chitlin? :)
 

fcjl8

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Very deep discussions at the men's group dinner last night. Some very interesting topics were raised.

It left me with the impression everyone has some issues, major issues , no matter how perfect their outward life appears!

I am happy that I am moving farther away from porn use.
 

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fcjl8 said:
Very deep discussions at the men's group dinner last night. Some very interesting topics were raised.

It left me with the impression everyone has some issues, major issues , no matter how perfect their outward life appears!

I am happy that I am moving farther away from porn use.
I suspect you are right. There are a lot of screwed up people out there.
 

fcjl8

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When I am totally honest and the b.s. is all gone... I would include myself in that "screwed up people" list. Maybe, at the top of the list?

But, I hope this changes as maturity continues.
 

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fcjl8 said:
When I am totally honest and the b.s. is all gone... I would include myself in that "screwed up people" list. Maybe, at the top of the list?

But, I hope this changes as maturity continues.
Perfection is a path, not a destination.
 

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fcjl8 said:
When I am totally honest and the b.s. is all gone... I would include myself in that "screwed up people" list. Maybe, at the top of the list?

But, I hope this changes as maturity continues.

Sir
I too am on that list... but life is a struggle and in the working thru the struggle is how we gain in wisdom
 

fcjl8

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Friday... cold and wet and feels like winter just came back!

Anyway... I am clean from porn and masturbation and that is ever good for me!

I am grateful for my life, my family and friends... a warm home. I am grateful for work. I am grateful for all that I have learned on this path of recovery!
 

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fcjl8 said:
Friday... cold and wet and feels like winter just came back!

Anyway... I am clean from porn and masturbation and that is ever good for me!

I am grateful for my life, my family and friends... a warm home. I am grateful for work. I am grateful for all that I have learned on this path of recovery!
You Canadians must be sinning a lot to have deserved this year's winter. :)
 

WiP

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That's a good one.  Blame it on the Canadians.  Today May 15 we had flurries in the Midwest.  Damn Canadians!
 

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That's a good one.  Blame it on the Canadians.  Today May 15 we had flurries in the Midwest.  Damn Canadians!
See how they are. :)
 

fcjl8

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Very cold today!!! I had never considered the sinful part in this LTE! Cutting the grass on the big mower in a coat and toque and gloves brrr.... it's a long weekend here and yesterday there was a stream of cottage bound cars and trucks with boats and camper trailers and motorcycles heading north... yikes!

We are a tough or crazy bunch of people up here!

All is well on the PMO free path... I do get a nagging little , very little addict whisper once and a while... he is pretty easy to deal with , using all I have learned over the past few years!
 

SlaveToRighteousness

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Canadians sure do love their long weekends, even more so than Americans. Since moving to Canada 5 years ago, it has not yet ceased to amaze me how excited the locals get about having an extra day off to go camping and such.
 
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