Tclay
Active Member
Ok. Let's do this.
I'm 51 and married now for 31 yrs. I have had porn in my life sense I was 12. My wife and I have not had to deal with ED until the last three years. It has been becoming progressively worse up until late last year when I had a complete shut down and Willy refused to cooperate. With Willy's refusal to participate I became motivated to find out what has happened. Making a long story short, porn addiction has emerged as the cause. I know this because Willy cooperates when viewing porn but will not when with my lover ( my wife).
The maximum time I have refrained from MPO is now seventeen days. After which I actually managed to persuade Willy enough to join us and we made love. I have missed this aspect of our relationship so this was great. But then, for some reason, I slipped back to my old ways and for the last week I pretty much tossed all the progress into the trash. This really stinks and I feel like crap.
I'm convinced I need folks like you to help me achieve a healthy approach against porn and rekindle my love life with my wife. So I'm just putting it out there... I can't do this by myself. Four months of struggle have brought me to this point.
I'm 51 and married now for 31 yrs. I have had porn in my life sense I was 12. My wife and I have not had to deal with ED until the last three years. It has been becoming progressively worse up until late last year when I had a complete shut down and Willy refused to cooperate. With Willy's refusal to participate I became motivated to find out what has happened. Making a long story short, porn addiction has emerged as the cause. I know this because Willy cooperates when viewing porn but will not when with my lover ( my wife).
The maximum time I have refrained from MPO is now seventeen days. After which I actually managed to persuade Willy enough to join us and we made love. I have missed this aspect of our relationship so this was great. But then, for some reason, I slipped back to my old ways and for the last week I pretty much tossed all the progress into the trash. This really stinks and I feel like crap.
I'm convinced I need folks like you to help me achieve a healthy approach against porn and rekindle my love life with my wife. So I'm just putting it out there... I can't do this by myself. Four months of struggle have brought me to this point.