gummianka
Active Member
Hope you can get a lot from this, fyg. I write to get things off my chest, but also hoping that some other people can benefit from reading this. Thanks for you comment and good luck.
Today was a success. A regime of cold showers work very well. Not when I feel the urge, but at set times, three times a day. Urges worse at work actually, then at home.
Also removing physical stuff. making it HARD!!! to access porn is fundamental. It makes it difficult to relapse, and perhaps more importantly, it makes the very, very easy to avoid the small urges, so I save energy for the more important battles. Its all about saving energy.
30 day is a very good mark for me. It is perfect in timing, and I think it is long enough that I will actually see sme effects by then. that is my mark, and nothing else is important. I will NOT replase before that, and day 31 doesn't even exist.
Today was a success. A regime of cold showers work very well. Not when I feel the urge, but at set times, three times a day. Urges worse at work actually, then at home.
Also removing physical stuff. making it HARD!!! to access porn is fundamental. It makes it difficult to relapse, and perhaps more importantly, it makes the very, very easy to avoid the small urges, so I save energy for the more important battles. Its all about saving energy.
30 day is a very good mark for me. It is perfect in timing, and I think it is long enough that I will actually see sme effects by then. that is my mark, and nothing else is important. I will NOT replase before that, and day 31 doesn't even exist.