I have some random urges that sneak up on me from time to time. Like I'll be watching TV or something and then discover that I'm absent-mindedly checking for signs of life below the belt. It's not that I'm necessarily even having a sexual thought at the time - just years of having that regular feeling leaves my brain subconsciously looking for it. At times I will even feel slightly aroused before I realise what's happening and stop it. I haven't M at all since June started.Chip said:So how are you doing? I see you ticked off 25 days, having any problems? I myself had some random brain fog this weekend, but I'm better this morning.
What this shows me is that my brain is so practiced at seeking arousal that I don't even need to be consciously involved for it to happen. This is a sobering thought because when I haven't really had too much trouble with resisting P so far, but my subconscious mind really can't be trusted - so I must remain vigilant. I am both excited and suspicious of my recovery so far. It hasn't been as hard as I thought it might be in my first week when I had urges every day. But I know my brain is creative enough to still keep finding a way to get its fix - for a while yet anyway.
I did fall off the wagon yesterday regarding my sugar addiction. I think my addiction to sugar is worse than my P addiction - but then again all addictions have things in common in the brain so I need to be very careful right now because if my sugar resolve can weaken, so could my P resolve. It's a process...
Thanks for your support, my friend.
M.