tiredofthe struggle
Active Member
Hi JJacks
Have to say your situation similar to mine as often working alone at home which is a real serious strain on will power, and cannot tell my wife as divorce is the very likely outcome and i cannot lose my family.
I find myself now going out and doing other activities rather than being at the computer, but then feel pressure as im not getting my work done. The reality however i find is that if i start on porn, i stay on porn and get no work done anyway.
My answer is as you said work alongside my wife, and if that isnt possible take my laptop to a coffee shop so that i cannot view porn, ifi need to fi thats not possible we are back to will power alone which usually eventually fails me so its that area i need a solution for.
Have you tried recovery nation website, some useful exercises on that.
Best of luck
Have to say your situation similar to mine as often working alone at home which is a real serious strain on will power, and cannot tell my wife as divorce is the very likely outcome and i cannot lose my family.
I find myself now going out and doing other activities rather than being at the computer, but then feel pressure as im not getting my work done. The reality however i find is that if i start on porn, i stay on porn and get no work done anyway.
My answer is as you said work alongside my wife, and if that isnt possible take my laptop to a coffee shop so that i cannot view porn, ifi need to fi thats not possible we are back to will power alone which usually eventually fails me so its that area i need a solution for.
Have you tried recovery nation website, some useful exercises on that.
Best of luck