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With greater stability comes clarity
First is clarity and differentiation of feelings and emotions, and understanding and applying different types of soothing methods.
Second is having a better grasp of my tolerance level.
1. Feelings and soothing
There are many different types of negative emotions
Anger
Anxiety
Agitated
Stress
Restlessness
In the past there is only 1 form of soothing which is ineffective and contribute to more troubles.
Now with clarity we can find and apply more effective ways of soothing.
Agitations? Move away and distance
Anger? Calming program
Anxiety and worry? Calming and let go
Stress? Calming and let go; prepare in advance
2. Tolerance
Like willpower which is limited, tolerance is also limited.
There are only so many incidents which we can tolerate everyday until we implode.
Here greater emotional sophistication helps.
Is it my problem or theirs?
Should it bother me or not?
If it bothers me, how can I reduce the effect?
If I can't reduce the effect, what could I do?
What are the effective ways afterwards to soothe myself
What are more effective ways to help me before things get critical.
First is clarity and differentiation of feelings and emotions, and understanding and applying different types of soothing methods.
Second is having a better grasp of my tolerance level.
1. Feelings and soothing
There are many different types of negative emotions
Anger
Anxiety
Agitated
Stress
Restlessness
In the past there is only 1 form of soothing which is ineffective and contribute to more troubles.
Now with clarity we can find and apply more effective ways of soothing.
Agitations? Move away and distance
Anger? Calming program
Anxiety and worry? Calming and let go
Stress? Calming and let go; prepare in advance
2. Tolerance
Like willpower which is limited, tolerance is also limited.
There are only so many incidents which we can tolerate everyday until we implode.
Here greater emotional sophistication helps.
Is it my problem or theirs?
Should it bother me or not?
If it bothers me, how can I reduce the effect?
If I can't reduce the effect, what could I do?
What are the effective ways afterwards to soothe myself
What are more effective ways to help me before things get critical.
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