Escapeandnevercomeback
Respected Member
I still can't see where it's going to end. Is this going to be like summer 2021? A longer streak that ends and is not going to be repeated for the next few months? Is this going to be another year like 2021? Is this going to be a year where I have some moderate success in the first half and then crash hard in the second half and see my life slowly but surely going the fuck away year by year? I know this is not a good mentality to have. I know it's not good to think about the future in that way, I know all this. It's not what you know, it's what you do.
I was not prepared for the worse. I prepared myself for the urges. I thought that was everything I had to take care of. I avoided engaging with the porn thoughts and everything was going really great. I started feeling what people call "Superpowers". I started to feel great. My brain worked at 120%, I was super motivated to study at work. I've progressed at work in January more than the whole year of 2021. But, like I said, I didn't see it coming. I started to feel really shit mentally, all the superpowers were gone, my brain did not function the same, my motivation was not the same. I failed to do something about it.
I ended up having an O because you don't start edging without being left frustrated. The "reward" is the O. All the edging, all the rituals are a search for the fuckin big O, that is not even satisfying. If I tried to find any positives in all this, it would be that I still haven't watched a porn video. I edged to fantasies and some pictures. And then I Oed. After that, I read something that I found interesting: You aren’t trying to beat an addiction. You’re trying to kill the habitual ritual associated with your bad habit. This hit me like a baseball bat. It is a fuckin ritual for me. In the way it starts and evolves when I do it. It starts with edging to fantasies then edging to pictures and Youtube and finally edging to watching porn. Almost every fuckin single time. There are exceptions too but usually this is how it goes, especially when I am trying so hard to avoid it, it usually progresses just like that because my brain tricks me (and I'm an idiot to listen) that a little edging to fantasies ain't porn yet, a little edging to some pictures is not my porn yet and then... Rock bottom you idiot! I got you! I tricked you, you listened and you gave me my chocolate. The addicted beast gets its treat and I get the... dick.
But I guess everything really started with that MO session. I knew it was going to fuck me up, I fuckin knew it. Why? Because I have OCD and I'm a fuckin obsessed perfectionist. The streak must be "perfect", if not, it fucks with my head. It started to fuck with me right after I did it. I came here and wrote that I don't want to let it fuck with me but it was fuckin with me, that's the truth. I started to obsess about what impact that had on me. Is that going to make me lethargic? Is that going to give me more social anxiety? Yadda Yadda. Ah, and I almost forgot, then the 1 minute edging session to a porn fantasy. That fucked with my mind further.
I am not sure how to address all this. Honestly, right now, I can't even think straight. I don't have a solution, I don't have a plan. I worry about how I'm going to perform tomorrow at work with a new guy that I've met for one minute only, and a girl. And I don't have energy and mood to wear masks. I'm tired of this fuckin game of pretending. Pretending to be alright. I don't know what else to say for now. I am extremely exasperated that all this happened right after my 40 days report.
I was not prepared for the worse. I prepared myself for the urges. I thought that was everything I had to take care of. I avoided engaging with the porn thoughts and everything was going really great. I started feeling what people call "Superpowers". I started to feel great. My brain worked at 120%, I was super motivated to study at work. I've progressed at work in January more than the whole year of 2021. But, like I said, I didn't see it coming. I started to feel really shit mentally, all the superpowers were gone, my brain did not function the same, my motivation was not the same. I failed to do something about it.
I ended up having an O because you don't start edging without being left frustrated. The "reward" is the O. All the edging, all the rituals are a search for the fuckin big O, that is not even satisfying. If I tried to find any positives in all this, it would be that I still haven't watched a porn video. I edged to fantasies and some pictures. And then I Oed. After that, I read something that I found interesting: You aren’t trying to beat an addiction. You’re trying to kill the habitual ritual associated with your bad habit. This hit me like a baseball bat. It is a fuckin ritual for me. In the way it starts and evolves when I do it. It starts with edging to fantasies then edging to pictures and Youtube and finally edging to watching porn. Almost every fuckin single time. There are exceptions too but usually this is how it goes, especially when I am trying so hard to avoid it, it usually progresses just like that because my brain tricks me (and I'm an idiot to listen) that a little edging to fantasies ain't porn yet, a little edging to some pictures is not my porn yet and then... Rock bottom you idiot! I got you! I tricked you, you listened and you gave me my chocolate. The addicted beast gets its treat and I get the... dick.
But I guess everything really started with that MO session. I knew it was going to fuck me up, I fuckin knew it. Why? Because I have OCD and I'm a fuckin obsessed perfectionist. The streak must be "perfect", if not, it fucks with my head. It started to fuck with me right after I did it. I came here and wrote that I don't want to let it fuck with me but it was fuckin with me, that's the truth. I started to obsess about what impact that had on me. Is that going to make me lethargic? Is that going to give me more social anxiety? Yadda Yadda. Ah, and I almost forgot, then the 1 minute edging session to a porn fantasy. That fucked with my mind further.
I am not sure how to address all this. Honestly, right now, I can't even think straight. I don't have a solution, I don't have a plan. I worry about how I'm going to perform tomorrow at work with a new guy that I've met for one minute only, and a girl. And I don't have energy and mood to wear masks. I'm tired of this fuckin game of pretending. Pretending to be alright. I don't know what else to say for now. I am extremely exasperated that all this happened right after my 40 days report.