GBS
Respected Member
473 days
Coming up to a month no MO (no ejaculation)
Ah my dear friends @Blondie @Androg @joepanic @Jlied - thanks for your concern, most touching. Have no fear, I was NOT about to re;apse. It was a childish outburst borne from intense frustration. But I am fine now.
She had this opportunity, I think, to take things forward and when it came to the time when she had to make the bet, she couldn’t walk into the casino. I get it. You pin your hopes on going two steps forward but you end up going back two. Net effect minus four in your head.
Therapy - can;t do a joint session with her therapist (rules apparently) but we could do couples therapy. Right now though it has been recommended that we don’t. She’s (allegedly) too empty.
Droggers you make a good point. 15 months in and we’re still whining about things and retraumatizing is bang on. That’s what it feels like. Safe territory for her. But I get it….15 months isn’t that long really.
Yesterday was a good day of togetherness making me feel that somehow the therapeutic side of things is not helping. Just being together helps.
Forwards we go.
Coming up to a month no MO (no ejaculation)
Ah my dear friends @Blondie @Androg @joepanic @Jlied - thanks for your concern, most touching. Have no fear, I was NOT about to re;apse. It was a childish outburst borne from intense frustration. But I am fine now.
She had this opportunity, I think, to take things forward and when it came to the time when she had to make the bet, she couldn’t walk into the casino. I get it. You pin your hopes on going two steps forward but you end up going back two. Net effect minus four in your head.
Therapy - can;t do a joint session with her therapist (rules apparently) but we could do couples therapy. Right now though it has been recommended that we don’t. She’s (allegedly) too empty.
Droggers you make a good point. 15 months in and we’re still whining about things and retraumatizing is bang on. That’s what it feels like. Safe territory for her. But I get it….15 months isn’t that long really.
Yesterday was a good day of togetherness making me feel that somehow the therapeutic side of things is not helping. Just being together helps.
Forwards we go.