it might be moment before dawn now GBS. Its darkest time before light come. Is it helping to talk with your wife about your and her wishes or where you both are or what have on mind. Ok, im not professional and might have that same problem with my wife also but somehow try to increase connection with your wife on other areas of life. Concentrate to have more time and connection and talk with your wife. These are just stupid words and i dont know about amything, just think that more communication and connection could help on some issues..757 days sober
18 days no MO
A bit depressed honestly. Nice touching session with wife, but when I asked if we could progress to something more intimate I got a round “no” in response. Not ready, thinks that if I touch her I must be thinking of someone else. Knows it’s about building trust. I said if I touched her it was to give her pleasure not just me. Response was that she would consider that…..err…..consider? So it’s deflating after 2 years and 1 month of sobriety to be told she still can’t take the necessary risk. But that’s the truth if the matter.
The urge to MO to more fantasy is extremely strong, but somehow I resist. Fucking hell…..this is hard.
You get what you give up. It means that when you concentrate to other areas the thing you wanted come to you. And when you try to get something it somehow goes further. Dont know is it working, test and tell..
Anyway ,sorry my bad english, i dont want to be rude but might sound like it. All good for you and your wife!
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